(Closed) decided to leave my FI..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3689 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

((hugs))  Take care of yourself.  The Bee will be here when you’re ready to come back

Post # 4
2158 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I hope you will find yourself in a better place soon.  Good on you for having the courage to do what you feel you must.  I wish you the best.

Post # 5
3790 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I’m sorry to hear about your break up but glad that you had the courage to leave rather than letting it become more destructive and you becoming resentful of one another.

I also wanted to say that I know the feeling you describe of being punched in the stomach by leaving him.  It’s hard when you care and love someone but those things have stopped being enough.

It’s always sad to see bees move on, and I do hope you come back to us one day.

Best of luck for the future.

Post # 6
2414 posts
Buzzing bee

Sorry to hear that, TxBella!



You know the right thing to do deep in your heart. If you have dodged a bullet, then feel good knowing that you are starting off with a clean slate, and you can reinvent yourself and your life however you choose.

Always trust your gut instinct.

You are only in your late 20s…. you have plenty of time!

Be strong and take things one day at a time! ((((more big hugs)))) It takes courage to do what you are doing, and I admire you for that!


Post # 7
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m sorry you’re going though this, but you know you made the right decision. Best of luck in the future. 

Post # 8
339 posts
Helper bee

Good luck! It might be tough being on your own for a little while but you will find someone perfect for you and then it will all be worth the wait.  I dated someone for almost 7 years and although we broke up under good terms (and are still friends) it was definitely an adjustment.  But now I have been dating my SO for a little over a year and I know this relationship is different! You can do it!

Post # 9
2951 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

always put yourself first. You have my best wishes and thoughts coming your way! Take care and keep pushing forward! good luck!!! 🙂 *hugs*

Post # 10
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Things happen for a reason. I do not need to wish you luck, because things will only get better from here. Good on you for making that decision.

Post # 11
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Sorry to hear about your break up.  It is so, so hard to walk away from something you thought was “real”.  But, you’ll continue “onward and upward” to happier days, I’m certain!  We’ll miss you around here.  Best wishes to you, my dear!

Post # 12
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ohmygosh.  I’m so sorry hun.  I’m glad you did what’s best for you though.  (hugs) stay strong!

Post # 13
1352 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Best of luck to you!! I look forward to seeing you come back when you meet Mr. Right!! 🙂

Post # 14
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I have so much hope for you!

Darling, “late twenties” is so not over the hill. And trust me, it’s much better to find love later in life, then to make a mistake that wastes years. 


Post # 15
466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Thats a strong move girl and as much as it hurts I congratulate you for making a move for yourself. Get yourself together and get your butt back to the bee..lol



Post # 16
540 posts
Busy bee

Take care and good luck! I hope you’re able to rebuild to be stronger than before and that you find happiness sooner rather than later!

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