- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Well, my husband and I were going to be renewing our vows on the beach next summer; however my step sister and his sister both just recently got engaged and will be getting married the same year. And one of my bridesmaids will be in another wedding a week after we were going to be doing our renewal. She said she would still be in ours no matter what, but I feel bad making her do that. Then I emailed several venues to see if we could go see the facilities and none of them have gotten back to me and it’s been over 2 weeks. On top of all that, we had to afford a new roof for our house, and our lawn now needs expensive help. And we are not done remodeling our house, and a whole other slew of things that seem to be coming against our date. It’s a good thing I haven’t put any other deposits down except for the wedding coordinator. She said if we changed the date that our deposit would move with it, so that is a good thing. I am also getting a tummy tuck, but just got a new job and can’t do it until November of this year. Which means, I won’t have the complete 100% results of it yet by the time of the renewal. Even though I have already started my save the dates, I didn’t put a bunch of money into them so it’s not a big loss. So making this decision has lifted a huge load off of my shoulders. I now have wayyy more time to plan and save up the money. Maybe this way we can make it even more fantastic and not have to cut so many corners to be able to afford it. Good thing is I already have my dress, so I don’t have to worry about affording that.