Decision to invite 2nd cousins to wedding

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@EmmiJeanne:  it is rude but if you aren’t having a child-free event it is also rude to invite some kids and not others.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Your cousin is being incredibly rude to even mention that her daughter wasn’t invited let alone to continually pester you and try and guilt trip you.  You have space and budget limitations, that does not make you a bad person.  Like you said, none of your cousin’s children are invited so her making a big deal trying to get an exception for her daughter is really bad on her part.  You have done nothing wrong in this situation.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@EmmiJeanne:  I think your cousin is out of line. Sounds like you are doing your best to explain it though.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@EmmiJeanne:  How old is your godchild?

I didn’t invite aunts/uncles, EXCEPT one aunt, who is also my godparent. And we invited godparents!

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