(Closed) Decisions, Decisions, Decisions!!!! AHHHHHH!!!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would say go with #1. It seems beyond perfect and everything you want besides the price. If you can swing the extra I would say chose church #1. I just think we spend so much money on the actual reception and try to not spend anything on the sacrament itself. My mother was adament on everything with our ceremony being perfect that we hand picked all of our musicians and singers and everything turned out much more beautiful than I ever expected. I am constantly getting compliments on our ceremony.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I say don’t make any decision until you meet the pastor from church #1. It’s so important.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Meet the pastor before you decide. You want a meaningful ceremony, not just a pretty one. The price of #2 is also nice. But I think you’re already decided.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Honestly from how you explained both churches, I would say go with #1! #2 sounds like it wouldn’t be worth the stress you would have to deal with to make sure everything goes perfect!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@rachelss: I totally agree with the idea of meeting the pastor first. This can have a huge impact on your ceremony and should be taken into consideration. Good luck!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Number 1 sounds perfect, but you can’t be sure until you meet the pastor. If you don’t get along with the pastor, the whole ceremony can be extremely uncomfortable for you. You’d be wishing for a few stairs and a cramped bridal party as long as it came with the pastor you like.

If your FI won’t go with you, them meet with him alone. But don’t skip that step. You could be very very sorry if you do.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

It’s sounding like church #1 to me. If you meet the pastor you might light him, but if not, it might be possible to have the other pastor (from#2) perform the service in #1. It sort of depends on whether they are indenent or part of a diosese what their policy is.

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