(Closed) Deep, dark secrets?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think its a loaded topic! What you find non threatening someone else might have a bird over lol. I think embarrassing stuff like you pooped you pants isn’t necessary but if its really horrible it most of the time finds its way out somehow-unless its between you and your grave and their is absolutely no reason any of it could come up or you would ever be compelled to tell through guilt or some life crisis etc.

Post # 5
1552 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My Darling Husband knows EVERYTHING, even the “darkest” secrets i have.

I once told him the secret i thought i would keep to my grave, when he haerd it he laughed and said: “that’s your darkest secret, that’s silly”

Post # 6
3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

my Darling Husband knows everything about me too, stuff that not even my parents know.

Post # 7
3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance knows everything.  Some things I was embarassed to tell him, but I kind of like that he knows everything about me.

Post # 8
5011 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Anamagana: We’re the same. We go for full disclosure. It works for us.

Post # 9
902 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My fiance knows pretty much everything, especially one certain thing that my parents do not know about.


Post # 10
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Actually my husband pretty much knows everything. Now I want to rack my brain and see if there’s anything he doesn’t know…

Post # 11
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think Darling Husband knows everything.  If there’s stuff he doesn’t know yet, I would be okay telling him.  Then again, I have a fairly vanilla past, so my deep, dark secrets are more like slightly below ground-level, semi-shaded secrets.

Post # 12
7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Darling Husband knows everything.  He is one of the only people who really knows everything and one of the only people who doesn’t judge.  He doesn’t think twice (about my things).  I think that is why he is right for me.  It is as if his security gives me security.  By him knowing and not judging me, I think it helps me not judge myself.

I don’t know Miss Orchard, I think only you know what is right for you….

Post # 13
2607 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I guess it would depend.  For me, if it’s bad enough to be considered a “skeleton in your closet” than yeah, your Darling Husband should probably know.  If it’s just something embarrassing that couldn’t hurt anything besides perhaps your pride, (I like a PPs example of “I pooped my pants” hehehe), then no.  I mean, you should be comfortable enough to share it, but I understand a girl’s gotta have her pride, and maybe she doesn’t want her Darling Husband to know she pooped in the middle of the street while wearing a wedding dress she was trying on.

Post # 14
1095 posts
Bumble bee

While I don’t think hiding things is always a good idea (and never things that could be hurtful/come back and bite you), I think personal secrets are an important part of anyone’s privacy. If something comes up about said secret(s), I definately think you should discuss it. Or if keeping the secret is giving you stress and anxiety, then you should definately tell your trusted Darling Husband. Otherwise, I dont think it’s always necessary.

Post # 16
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Miss Apricot: Haha! 

I guess my Fiance knows about the “skeletons”, aka big things. Anything else that didn’t have a big impact on my life/that doesn’t keep me up at night can stay in the past.

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