- 5 years ago
Hello waiting bees! This is about my 3rd (?) post. I have been commenting for a little while now, and lurking for a lot longer than that lol. I considered myself to be waiting since November 2012 ( we have been together for 2 years and a week). I was ring-obsessed and wedding-obsessed and lurking on these forums. I was also constantly telling my BFF that i wanted to be engaged and WHEN did she think it would happen?! Needless to say I was probably driving her insane. She solidified my waiting status when she informed me that SO told her he would be talking to her about “rings” in “a couple months”. My mind went into overdrive… I am much more calm now 🙂
We were on the phone earlier today and he asked what I was up to. I told him I was reading some posts on weddingbee. “Oh, what’s the topic?” he asked. I told him it was about a bee wanting to be engaged or married before buying a house together. The talk soon turned into a talk about US and OUR plans. I asked him when he thought would be an apporpriate time frame for those things. “We have talked about this…” he said. true, but nothing was definite and was definitely open to interpretation. He told me: We ARE on the same page. Between the 2nd and 3rd year is when I think it’s time for the next step…”
That means this year!!!! I’m going to be giddy trying to guess when. A lot of fun things are happening between now and the summer so it could be anytime. Ahh! I will remain sane and read posts here to get me through the year lol.
I am excited. Just wanted to share.