Deployment Fears

posted 3 years ago in Military
Post # 3
Member
49 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Payless:  I’m sorry, deployments are always hard no matter what your s/o mos is. I know i was sick with worry when my fi was deployed. Stay strong and keep busy with your friends and job/school/hobbies. Try not to watch the news too much because you’ll get scared hearing about bad news from his area. Is he being deployed to a combat zone?

Post # 5
Member
1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It’ll be ok. Its their job, we can’t expect them to train, get paid and never do what they’ve trained for.  That’s how I see it.

just keep faith, I know it’s hard.

Post # 6
Member
28 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Can I ask what rank and branch you guys are? 

Post # 7
Member
736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Payless:  How is your husband 20, have a BA, have commision, undergrad pilot training, PCSM, UPT and somehow has already been deployed once?

Post # 10
Member
2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

@Payless:  DH was Army, infantry to be more specific, so I definitely understand your worry!  No matter what a soldier does, a deployment is hard on them and their families….However when you know your hubby is going to be in danger every single day, it adds a whole layer of worry.  DH would call me before leaving on missions, that was always a fun thought to go to back to sleep to….not! lol

When I would have my freak out moments, my dad would always remind me that DH was a highly trained soldier, surrounded by highly trained soldiers.  They knew what they were doing and always had someone watching their back.  Keep your mind focused on the positive and DO NOT LET IT linger on the negative/scary…it will drive you crazy. 

Post # 11
Member
736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Payless:  Again, you stated he’s been in for a year, yet he enlisted before he was 18. In one post you have been together for 3 years, then 4, now it is 4.5 years? You were highschool sweethearts being 15-16. Then he’s been deployed once and is in training now for wings yet a month ago he was deployed as well? Flight school, Basic, specialized training for field, ect.

 

You post nothing but inconsistencies. 

Post # 14
Member
736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Payless:  So now your A1C (not being sure he was bumped up yet) is a senior airman? Wow. He’s done what others take years to do in a span of 6 months after basic. 

 

Do you know how utterly disgusting it is to come into a forum and lie about being a military wife? How insulting it is to all those wives who actually do suffer during deployment?

 

Or was it all just to get that “money” you needed for your “wedding”? 

Disgusting.

Post # 16
Member
736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Payless:  I am sure your “Airman” will have a good laugh. Now is this Facebook also compiled “friends” you have gathered while living in a world of pretend?

 

I mean, how do you not keep a story straight in a month span? Laugh it off dear. I guess the truth is something you have a hard time accepting.

 

What is entertaining is the fact that all your delusions and contradictions are splashed on the site.

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