depressed :( need some advice!!

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@myweddingbee:  I am sorry that you are feeling low. Have you actually asked your friends specificially for help? Maybe they dont know how to help you with the new house? You could call them up and ask if they can come along and help painting for example. 

As for your cousins’ engagememt. Her wedding is almost 4 months after yours. I dont see why combining bridal shower and the likes, would make any sense. Unless you want those to be celebrated together.

I hope you feel better soon!

Post # 4
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356 posts
Helper bee

I’ve been in the same situation, always there for them, but when its something exciting for you, it seems they don’t care. The only conclusion I’ve ever come to is jealousy. Just keep your chin up and know you’ll get through it, as much as it sucks.

 

As for your cousin, its not very fair for you. I wouldn’t share my shower or b-party with her just because that is YOUR time to feel special and I’m sure she’d feel the same way. Maybe talk to your cousin and just simply let her know that you want your time to be the bride, just like she should have hers. That way you’ll both have those special events specifically for each of you.

 

Just a few thoughts, hope everything works out!

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