(Closed) depressed…..my husband died.

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know that words are inadequate at a time like this but I am so very sorry for your loss. ๐Ÿ™ My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Im so sorry :'( Stay with family as mucvh as possible

 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Oh my goodness, how devastating. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

I’m sure your in-laws are just lashing out at you out of pain. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I can not take away any of your pain, i wish i could. I’m so sorry for your loss!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Aww sweet girl! *hugs* I am so glad you wrote this so that we could support you during this time. I’m sure you’re suffering a lot, and being very pregnant I’m sure isn’t making it any easier. 

What a wonderful man your husband sounded like! I’ll bet you have some great stories that you will think of him by. Remember that what is left of him here and now is you and your daughter. Hold your head up high and be proud that you are both representing him. When people meet you, show them why you were both his best accomplishment.

I know it’s hard when you’re hurting, but you have to keep your heart open, don’t let it shrink! Don’t see the world as against you, even if certain things may pass that seem so destructive it’s hard to go on, love is a great enough consolation to live for. Your family, and most of all your daughter need your courage now. Remember that you have an angel looking out for you both.. talk to him when you need to ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am so so very sorry. Sending you love and strength. I am sure you will be an amazing mother. ((Hugs))

Post # 10
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Newbee

I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. Sending hugs and prayers your way x

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wish I could reach through the computer screen and hug you.  I know no words can bring you comfort, but know that there are people out there thinking about you and praying that hold on to that strength that you have inside you.  It sounds like you have a support network with your families.  Lean on them – let them take care of you.  And let yourself cry – don’t hold it in.  I’m certain that DH is looking down at you, and is so proud of you for getting through the last few weeks.  He will also watch out for you and make sure you get through the future.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

I am so sorry you had to experience such a devastating loss ๐Ÿ™ My heart hurts just reading that. I think your feelings of wanting to be close to family is the best thing for you. Take as much time as you need and be around those who support you most.  It is very understandbale having those feelings about having a baby. But I believe that once the baby is here you are going to have so much love and even joy from him. It’s normal to be sad as well. You can’t help but think about your husband not being there soallow yourself to grieve. Don’t hold back your tears.. I will be sending prayers and good thoughts your way. Stay strong, keep us updated.. hugs.

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@starry:  Dear Starry, I am so deeply sorry that you have to live this tragedy, at this time. I just want to do something to make you feel better, but I know I can’t. I admire your strength and think it is great you are looking to be closer to your family who will support you in this time. 

Are you religious? I believe that we will be with our loved ones in an after life and that you will be eternally happy and reunited with your husband. You and he will always be one and his soul will always be with yours. He isn’t gone, not spiritually and not even physically, he just exists in another form, as we all end up doing when we pass away. 

Your baby is going to bring you so much joy. One day, when the grieving is over, you’ll smile and think of your husband’s wonderful life and achievements when he was alive. Your husband lives in you and your baby.

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

As the other bees, i am so incredibly sorry for the tragedy that has fallen upon you..anyone would be davastaded so please be gentle on yourself. Do you have friends nearby, true friends that may help you in this hour of need?? Including family, of course. Surround yourself with love, dear bee and hope you have the strenghth to live through this terrible time

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so, so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of hugs & lifting you up with prayers & happy thoughts. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Sunset Harbour

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and I am sending prayers your way. 

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