(Closed) Destination Wedding Guest List Help

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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12569 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it depends on family dynamics, honestly.  In my family, picking-and-choosing is not tolerated, and if you invite one aunt, you invite all of them.  If his family wouldn’t be offended or upset at not being invited when parts of your family were, then that’s fine.

Post # 4
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5425 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

I only invited my mother’s sister and FI invited 2 of his aunts (plus sposuses for all).  You have to make the decision together on who to invite.  And drawing the line with aunts/uncles/cousins whatever doesnt work well for a destination wedding, becaude you want to invite those closest to you.  It’s his call on who he wants in his family.

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