Post # 1
What is the etiquette for sending a thank you to someone who attended my destination wedding and was part of giving a gift but the husband did not come? They were both invited and the husband did not attend and there was no card given, just a spa service was given to me for the day of the wedding as my wedding gift. I am assuming I just send a thank you to the person who came and gave the gift?
Post # 3
I would write it this way.
Jane & John,
Thank you so much for the X spa service – it was a wonderful way to relax right before the wedding. Jane, we absolutely loved having you at the wedding. It meant so much that you could be there with us. John, you were missed at the wedding but we can’t wait to see you soon and will share lots of photos. Thanks again.
AJ & Mr. AJ
Post # 4
@aj5977: Since they’re married, I would address the thank you to both even though only one attended.