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Destination Wedding Weekend Events - How to Balance?

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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    We're having a destination wedding in Wyoming in July.  We're expecting 60 guests.  We're SO appreciative of everyone taking the time and spending the money to travel all the way out there and really want to make sure everyone feels taken care of (even a little spoiled).  We've been trying to pay for as many meals and activities as we can.  However, I also want people to be able to get out and enjoy the area on their own and do things that interest them.  There's so much to do and see, I don't want people to feel so completely consumed with wedding-related stuff that they can't enjoy the trip. 

    So, how many events and activities are TOO MANY?

    Right now we have the following planned:

    • Wednesday - optional rodeo for anyone in town and wanting to go
    • Thursday day - optional guys fishing trip for anyone interested 
    • Thursday night - welcome cocktail party
    • Friday day - bridesmaid and groomsmen lunch
    • Friday night - rehearsal dinner (all guests invited)
    • Saturday - ceremony and reception
    • Sunday morning - optional brunch

    Too much?  Would you feel overwhelmed?  Or would you feel taken care of? 

     
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    Bumble bee
    Miss Burgundy    May 28, 2010   Southern California

    I think it sounds great! Because it's optional people can go if they want but if they want to explore they can do that too!

     
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    Buzzing bee
    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    The activities sound nice and if they don't want to be involved the don't have to.

    We're doing the same thing, semi-destination wedding in Northern Iowa.  80+ guest will be OOT.

    Wednesday - arrive, set up, casual dinner
    Thursday Day - Boating, fishing, girls go to get nails done
    Thursday Night - Welcome party
    Friday Day - Breakfast, Boating
    Friday Night - Rehersal dinner - all welcome
    Saturday - Ceremony, reception
    Sunday AM - Brunch

     
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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    Oh good!  I'm glad to hear this!  I definitely will let people know that these are mostly optional, but good for free food and booze if they want it.  And we're going to try to promote the area by giving out lots of brochures, maps and info about the parks and activities. 

     @Snowflake - our wedding schedules sound a lot alike! 

     
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    Busy bee
    kitten      

    I think these sound great, but be sure to delegate responsibility for running things when the wedding week rolls around.  I was so much more scatterbrained during the actual wedding week than I thought I would be.  So much going on at once!   But these sound like really fun events for your guests!

     
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    Busy bee
    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    Thanks Kitten.  Any advice is much appreciated.  I have a wedding planner there that will be (hopefully) handling everything and telling everyone what do to (so I don't have to)!  But I already know it's going to be a WILD week.  So excited!!

     
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    Buzzing bee
    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    Another idea is that on the wiki there is a weekend plan that one of the bees put together.  I copied it and rewrote it for our stuff.  I figured I could print out and put in folders along with brochures, maps, etc and give to guests that will be around for the whole weekend.  I think it's under the timeline wiki

     

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