(Closed) Devastated:(:(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This is a converation for face to face only.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

It’s likely just his financial stress talking.  Instead of being mad and avoiding him, tell him you both need to have a sit down about having kids and what’s an acceptable goal for both of you. Communicate about this now before serious resentment sets in.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yep, face-to-face conversation.  It’d probably also help if you explain the increased risk of birth defects if you wait much longer.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

First off i cannot believe he would text you something like that. Those should be face to face conversations. As for possibly being pregnant if you are or aren’t things will work out because you are in love and planning a wonderful wedding together. I know it might hurt for him to say those things after you already went off the pill and most likley are excited to see if you might be pregnant. But, if you are he will be happy. Trust me.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Absolutely – face to face is the way to go.  I would just sit down and tell him that you need to talk and you just want to figure things out.

Post # 10
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Busy bee

who does that? how could he bring that up in a text? I think you need to sit down and talk about it face to face, girls have their freak out moments because of wedding stress that might be what he is going through hopefully after a good talk things will be better

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