- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
Normally, I wouldn’t be bothered about it. Can’t win them all, and so forth. But, pay attention, cuz it gets confusing here, I think she dislikes me because she thinks I dislike her. Here goes.
After a few years of us just not talking to each other much, I figured her not talking to me meant she disliked me, so I didn’t push myself on her. But a little while ago, I finally decided she’s very shy, and just doesn’t talk to people. I’m shy too, I get it.
So I decided to try, I talked to her for a little while when the family got together. As I was walking away once, I heard her mumble to her husband, “She actually talked to us on her own.” What?? Apparently, she felt the same way about me that I did about her. Except now she won’t give me a chance.
I try talking to her, striking up conversation, even waiting around to give her a hug before we leave family gatherings. She gives me short answers, and small smiles. It’s sad, because the more I’m around her, the more I think I really would like her. I don’t have a lot of friends, and apparently she’s the same, but she won’t even let me be nice.
So, anything I can do?