DH's Horrid/Crazy EX confessed undying love 6yrs ltr

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Let her keep bringing the crazy (unless it looks like it’ll be dangerous, but you may need a restraining order if she continues to harrass you guys like this).  This will only ensure what you already know is true – he would never go back to a mess like that.

Post # 4
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@OH1234:  From what you’ve written here, it sounds like she legitimately has a mental illness. I almost feel like you should bring in a third party (mutual friend? family member?) to address her behavior, as it is not normal and seems to swing between anger/negativity and over-the-top love declarations.

Post # 5
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Why would he go back to her?

Post # 9
528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@OH1234:  I havent had anything this bad, but my DH’s ex was always really awkward around me and him (we have a lot of mutual friends).  We were milfly freidnly at one point and she brought him a present. That was weird.

Post # 10
504 posts
Busy bee

@OH1234:   We had to deal with my fiance’s crazy ex for over 2 years.  it was emotionally exhausting for me.  she moved to an apartment within walking distance of our house and texted him, telling him that she never got over him.  funny enough, she also cheated on him. karma’s a b*tch.  🙂  hopefully this woman doesn’t do anything unreasonable.  it might be wise to document the correspondence just in case.

Post # 11
2047 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@OH1234:  Darling.  You need to hire an attorney.  file a protective order.  Get that child OUT of her home.  I work for a family law attorney and see situations like this daily and they escalate.  Not only is she alienating his child from him but she sounds unstable and a judge could order a mental examination to determine the best place for the child.

you and your husband are fine.  im mostly concerned about his child and the strain that will put on him and his relationship with the child, which could have a different kind of effect on your relationship.

Post # 12
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

Sounds like she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.   I feel more for the poor kid in the middle.

Post # 13
11379 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@heathuhhhhwebbbb:  i agree.


@OH1234:  this woman sounds incredibly unstable.  if you get the lawyers/courts involved it will either help her get the help she needs and protect the child or, if she is just being ridiculous and trying to stir shit in your marriage, this should be enough to make her stop.  maybe he should tell her that this is his next step to see if she stops.

make sure that your dh saves all texts and communication info from her just in case it comes to this.

Post # 14
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@OH1234:  In your husband’s shoes, I would have said “What do you mean, I already AM at home with my wife.” But I think he handled it perfectly. I feel sorry for that poor child… I guarantee you this inappropriate behavior is not just directed towards your husband – most likely this woman is equally unstable in all areas of her life and that child probably suffers quite a bit. A sad situation.

Post # 16
2474 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would definitely agree that she has a mental illness. Sounds a lot like my ex’s ex-wife. She was batshit crazy, but we knew it was only because she had a mental illness that she refused help for. SHe said a lot of the same types of things as this chick does. 

Just keep all that stuff on record… if she does something totally out of order, you’ll have it as proof!

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