(Closed) Diamond v Plain wedding rings- thoughts?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 15
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679 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

My wedding is on Sunday. I choose Sunday because everything was cheaper. And i do mean everything!

I am fully aware that people “frown upon” Sunday weddings, but here is my theroy. We are the only ones paying for any of this.

We don’t have that many out of town guests. I think you should do what works best FOR YOU! remember while yes you should want your guess to be comfortable, you have to be comfortable too.

If people leave early…GREAT LET THEM. Don’t feel bad at all. I assume you are sending out save dates so people will be well aware when the wedding is, and what they need to do to be comfortable the next day.

Post # 4
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3101 posts
Sugar bee

@linnylou_88:  I think it’s person by person, but w-bands with sparkle are VERY common.

Post # 21
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492 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

100% of the guest will be traveling in (no locals) and have to take a day off regardless (so either friday or monday depending on which day I choose to have the wedding) 

I do get that the partying mood will probably not be there on a Sunday… ahh decisions decisions.  

I also will save about 4000 just on the venue/catering/open bar.

I’m so torn because I don’t want people to NOT want to come because it’s on a Sunday, and while I can spend the extra 4000, I just feel so terrible that it could be saved for something else (like tuition or down payment on a house).

 

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have a diamond band!  I do not agree with the assertion that the e-ring is the most important.  Also, at least from being here on the Bee, I see TONS of sparkly bands all over the place.  I don’t really know in real life; believe it or not, I don’t actually pay attention to others’ rings out here in the real world, lol.

Post # 16
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149 posts
Blushing bee

@ChellFish22:  

It is lovely! I also really like how it stacks with your other bands.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I have diamonds on mine. I like to wear my band by itself becasue its more ikportant to me than the ering and always stays on my hand. I didn’t want a plain band. Never have.

Post # 7
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1507 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I couldn’t decide so I have both. I usually wear them together plus the e-ring, but it’s fun to mix and match all three rings. Also, don’t let your friends get you down. Haters gonna hate.

Post # 8
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221 posts
Helper bee

@linnylou_88:  I want a plain one so I never have to take it off for any reason. diamonds get things stuck in them, have to worry about losing them, etc. 

Post # 9
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1786 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have a plain band and I love it. I don’t care what anyone else gets for their band though. 

Post # 10
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122 posts
Blushing bee

@linnylou_88:  I have a channel set wedding band that matches my e ring as long as you like it, it shouldn’t matter others opinions

Post # 4
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996 posts
Busy bee

@happilyeveraftergirl: the things you mentioned are quite relevant however I’m not sure if the TV thing really has an impact, At least not for me but itd be interesting to see. 

For myself, as cliche as it is, good ole trust and communication. Without either of those you’re in the tank. I also think respect is a big deal. Like you mentioned people also have to be willing to be flexible and compromise 

Post # 11
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

My fiance and I agree that the wedding band is the more important of the rings. It is the promise to eachother for a lifetime. The engagement is only for a little while. It’s not the way everyone thinks but, it is done good for thought.

Post # 12
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

P.s. I have a channel set diamond band.

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