Did BF just drop a major hint?! Please give your opinion!

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I really don’t want to dash your hopes but the heirloom could be anything. It’s good that his finances are stable at the moment, but this doesn’t automatically mean he’s ready to propose. I hope I am wrong, and you get your proposal super soon, but please try not to freak out too much (easier said than done, I know). Good luck!

Post # 3
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1987 posts
Buzzing bee

It sounds promising! It’s hard not to get too excited. I’m not sure of what kind of heirloom a grandmother would leave to her grandson unless it was perhaps a watch or even a wedding band that maybe belonged to her husband. Or hell, maybe I’m way off base and it’s a Chevy. 😉 I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🙂

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 4
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297 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Well, I can’t say much about what guys “usually” do, since FI and I had pretty much planned the proposal and ring together haha. But it definitely sounds like you could be in luck!! Changing his story, acting confused and him needing to pick up this “heirloom” himself, all point in the direction of an heirloom stone or e-ring IMO! I can’t really think of what else it would be, unless it’s just a different piece of jewellery of his mom’s that he wants to give you as a birthday present, or if there’s a specific store near his sister he wants to buy a surprise gift from?

Try not to think about it too much though (easier said than done, i know) or you could end up disappointed. Keep busy 🙂 Exciting!!

Post # 5
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558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

In one hand I think his words are super strange, why would he not want you to see the thing? He doesn’t even know what that is? Hum… in my opinion he would be excited to see you and not miss a chance to do so.

In the other hand well… don’t get too excited, maybe it’s nothing and I know how much it hurts when you are hoping and waiting for something and then nothing happens 🙁

Good luck, I hope it is good news.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Sorry, I feel like you’re heading for a proposal, just not now.  Sounds like he’s ready to move to the next step: serious and concrete marriage talk, maybe talk about what rings you like.  Doesn’t sound like he’s going to surprise you with an heirloom ring.     

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It might be a ring that he intends to use in the future… But maybe he won’t be proposing until after you guys are living closer together since you’re still long distance.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I wouldn’t rush it, sounds like he’s keeping his options open.

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