Post # 1
im so upset right now!!!! Ive been engaged engaged for 11 months my wedding is in five months!!! I choose them 9 months ago they were really excited. I went to only one store to try on dresses and they could careless about it. one even left me mid appointment to go with her boyfriend to eat and the other acted like i was asking for her liver when i asked her to try on bridemaid dresses. Seriously!!! we were only there for 2 hours!!! so the lady told me since i have different sized bridemaids i need to order the dress this month!! since they willall need to be altered and dyed to match. Well we are supposed to go tomorow but low and behold my maid of honor texted me that she cant go because she wants to see her boyfriend of 2 weeks tomorow instead, and my one bridesmaid cant because her boyfriend gets out of work at three tomorow and wants to be home when he gets off!! oh and id i mention ive been away from my fiance for 2 months trying to get wedding stuff done, they both live 5 hours away from me so this has to get done this week before i leave to go back home!! so what do i do!!! i text them that i was really annoyed and felt like i have done nothing but inconvience them. so hive what do i do????
Post # 3
@babebabe06: I am gonna say roll with the punches. I think at this point it would be more of a hassle to find a whole new set of BMS. You have every right though to voice your opinions to them on the fact that they have not been the best BMs. It sounds like none of them are married though so they may not understand all that has gone into planning this wedding up till now.
Post # 4
for most people outside of a wedding they simply dont realize that there is a timeframe fopr ordering/receiving items like dresses and they think they have plenty of time where the bride knows that there isnt
i think a mass email with good humor and positive attitude is required. “hi ladies, as the dresses will take ??mths to make i need everyone to have their dress ordered no later than [insert date] so we can make sure there is no last minute delays. can you please let me know by [insert date here] that you have ordered your dress and the deposit it paid” but add some more love to your girls and see what the response is to that
Post # 5
thank you ladies!!! after crying for a bit im better!! i cant thank god enough for wedding bee!!! it helps just to write it all out!!! i just text them how i was feeling and trying to not be bridezilla lol and we are better, and i guess we are going shopping tomorow