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Did IUI work for you?

posted 5 months ago in TTC
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  • poll: Did IUI get you pregnant?
    YES! IUI worked for us! : (3 votes)
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    Nope, our IUI(s) didn't work. : (7 votes)
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    I know the stats on IUI and how effective it is, but I'd love to hear your personal stories.

    Did IUI work for you? If so, how many cycles did it take? If not, how many cycles did you try before you gave up? What meds were you taking to induce ovulation? 

    We are considering IUI for our next cycle, so I'm doing some info gathering. :)

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    Ugh.  I sure hope so!  Will get back to you in a few days!  I'm interested to see the replies but I also think it's totally dependent on each couple's specific issues.

     
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    meganmp1    January 24, 2009   Seattle, WA

    Bleh, I hate to be the first one with a negative, but we did three and none of them worked, and the last two IUIs were done with two follicles ready to go and everything.  However, I'm pretty sure that SweetKate from the infertility board got pregnant on her second one!  :)

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    I didn't vote because my experience doesn't count. We had one IUI, but that was before finding out that my lonely remaining tube was damaged. So I had a 0% chance of the IUI working! I will say that I took Clomid and had three follies. Had my tube not been damaged, we would have had a good shot at it!

     
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    winniewolf    October 2009  

    Just wanted to chime in and say our best friends just got pregnant on their first round of IUI!

     
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    jholler25    May 29, 2011   Fort Lauderdale, FL

    I don't want to vote because I've only had 1 IUI so far, and although it was BFN, I am on my second IUI cyle, so we're still trying to see if it works:)

    I just wanted to say that injectables with IUI has a better success rate.  So if you're going to do IUI and there's anyway you can do Follistim, then I think it increases your chances:)

     
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    carrieknitscake    October 10, 2009   Chicago, IL

    One of my very good friends got pregnant on her third cycle of IUI. She actually was a bit resistant to it or tired from the process. They got their BFP and had a baby girl in September.

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    Anyone else want to chime in?

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    I'm sorry, I had 2 and we stopped. Our chances with IUI were only about 15% though. We will possibly do Clomid again in the future but I will not go the IUI route again.

     
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    candicemcc    August 8, 2009   Houston

    It worked for my best friend.  First try!  She was mid-30s, PCOS, trying for quite awhile.

     
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    MerryC    September 2008   WA

    IUI didn't work for us - we did three femara + IUI (and one bravelle + IUI that was cancelled).  I had good response on all cycles, and hubby had above average parameters, it just didn't work.  I do think it's worth doing since it's not super cost prohibitive.  But we stopped after the failed injectables, because once we got to that point, we were spending so much money that we might as well put it toward IVF.  Which as you know, is what we did, and what finally worked :)

    And here's my little tangent/soapbox.  Honestly, I think it's all still up to chance, even with drugs.  We were floored to know that even doing IVF, out of 29 follicles, we got 23 mature eggs, only 18 fertilized, 15 made it to day 2-3, and only 5 made it to day 5.  And that's when the eggs and sperm are placed millimeters from each other!  It was totally a real-life lesson in natural selection for us, in that it kind of condensed 2+ years of cycles into one cycle, and what very small number of actual chances for conception we had.  But that also means that a huge part of the equation is getting the right bits together, and that can happen naturally, with IUI, or IVF.  And they wouldn't do IUI if they didn't work for some people :)

     
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    Hbhb    August 11, 2011  

    We did IUI 2 times...did not work either time unfortunately!!  I was on Clomid for these times, and know for sure one time I had three follicles.  However, found out that Clomid actually thinned my uterine wall, therefore making it almost impossible for implantation.  I need to try Femera next - we took almost a year off of IUI - trying it again in the next few months!! 

     
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    mmsva    October 9, 2010   Alexandria, VA

    I think it's important to know mother's age and what she used (which meds) to be able to get a good idea of everyone's expereinces. 

    I can't answer because we are in the TWW of our first IUI (gonal-F and Ovidrel), only one follie (and I'm 41).

    I have one friend who did IUI and it wasn't sucessful. Her DH had really, really low morphology and motility. But she was sucessful after one IVF (at 39). Another friend had her first child with IUI (I think it was her 2 or 3 round) when she was 37 or 38. But with her 2nd child she had to do 6 rounds of IVF when she was 42.

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    @Hbhb: How thin did it make your uterine lining?

     
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    Hbhb    August 11, 2011  

    @Mrs Green Grass: to be honest, I don't remember!  But, I'm getting my records sent to me...so I can look and let you know!  My Dr. said that only a small % of women have that adverse affect - and of course I was one of them!

     
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    mmsva    October 9, 2010   Alexandria, VA

    @Hbhb: Actually, it's not that rare with Clomid. And it dries out your CM (making natural BDing ineffective) In fact, from what I've heard, most European Docs use Fermera for this reason. But in the US there is more experience with Clomid (=comfort)  and there is a Black Box warning on Femera that it could cause this really rare Liver Cancer. But according to my Doc, all the studies have shown this not to be the case, but the warning is still there so docs are hesitant to use it. 

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    I had a thin lining to start with and I don't think Clomid thinned mine further, but mine was on 6mm this month...they like 8mm but said it was "ok".

    I've heard that the number of people who respond poorly is about 30%.  I was lucky...no CM issue (but I did IUI anyway) and no extra thinned lining.

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    I tried it once and it didn't work.  But we didn't know at the time that clomid had begun to hinder conception for me after a couple months of use. 

     

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    I am lucky for a couple reasons -- Clomid doesn't thin my lining or dry up my CM, DH's counts look good, and we're only 27 (me) and 30 (him). My doctor is pushing for IUI, but since we only had two good Clomid cycles out of three (I was out of town during O for the first one), I'm wondering if we couldn't just wait and try a few more cycles with Clomid or Femara instead of going all out. The doctor seems to think that if you go that far, you might as well do IUI to have the best chances of success. What do you guys think?

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    @bunny: His count is good, but how is the motility, etc?

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    @heathaah: When they did the SA back in April, they said everything was normal. I think there were a few that were average, maybe low side of average, but no bad results at all.

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    In my situtation, my RE saw no point in trying a second time.  My husband's sperm count, motility, etc. was actually shockingly high (which obviously gave him a huge ego boost...ugh, men!  As if he did anything "manly" to cause that!).  The nurse said she had never seen numbers like his in the infertility clinic.  Clearly this meant the problem was 100% completely me.  As she said, his sperm know where to go and will get there.  If his numbers were average or below average I am not sure what they would have recommended.

    But based on his numbers and the fact that I wasn't being "dried out" by the Clomid, IUI would not solve whatever was going on for us.  And it ended up being hostile eggies because of the Clomid. 

    ETA:  It's all about just how much it increases your chances each month.  For me, whether the sperm was injected by him (and having to travel) or via catheter (to the exact right spot), the egg had no greater chance of being fertilized either way.

     

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    @bunny: What is the cost for you?  We decided to go straight to IUI because of increased chances and we are in a hurry.  If you are not in a hurry it's not as big of an issue.  Since I wanted to do monitoring either way (to see if the Clomid worked!) it was only an additional $230 or so for adding an IUI.  DH doesn't have any issues that necessitate IUI either, but we figured the increased odds were worth it.

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    @Mrs Green Grass:  That's a good point too.  For me it was an extra $450.  You need to weigh the price along with whatever extra chance it gives you.  When I was trying, I would have paid a couple hundred for even just an extra 5% chance, or the peace of mind knowing that the sperm IS where it needs to be, eliminating one potential problem.  Unfortunately, the RE didn't think IUI would increase my chances at all, so it wasn't worth it, and my cost was higher.  But again, my "problem" of the Clomid making the egg hostile was unusual.

     

     
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    @heathaah: May I ask, how did they know your eggs were hostile?

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    @beekiss:  It was their best guess.  I guess no one ever knows for sure, but it is an effect of taking Clomid too many times overall.  They say you can take it for 6 cycles, but for at least 2-3 of my 45-60 day cycles, I took several doses.   The RE just decided that was the most likely senario.  He told me stopping the Clomid would actually give me my best chance at that point.  I was also on Met and had lost 11 lbs, bringing me to a healthy weight, so I started ovulating on my own but just taking a little longer for the follicles to grow.

     
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    @heathaah: Thanks, I had no idea clomid could do that!  I'm glad the metformin helped you, are you still on it during pregnancy? I know some physicians still prescribe as a way to prevent gestational diabetes.  I hated metformin and could only tolerate it for a month.

     
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    heathaah    September 2009  

    @beekiss: No, they had me stop at 12 weeks.  I was so nervous to stop.  I thought I would either get huge, have digestive problems, or even miscarry.  But I was fine!  I had to taper down over the course of 2 or so weeks.

     

     
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    PasteMoo    November 22, 2010   Virginia

    My coworker's wife got pregnant on round 2 of IUI. And then... her next two babies they had without any help at all (somehow).

     
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    @PasteMoo: Interestingly enough, for many women who have PCOS their fertility improves after giving birth.  The one thing that they need to improve their fertility is the one thing they struggle to get.

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    @heathaah: I had heard of the hostile cervical mucus, not the egg...that's crazy!

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    @Mrs Green Grass: It's an extra $300. We didn't do any monitoring with the first few rounds of Clomid, so that would be an additional cost for us. 

    @beekiss: I'm pretty sure my mom has PCOS, as well, because she has always had problems with her cycle and I'm a Clomid baby. Both my younger siblings were concieved naturally, too.

     
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    PasteMoo    November 22, 2010   Virginia

    @beekiss: Fascinating. I didn't realize that!

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    YAY! Someone finally voted that their IUI worked! Show yourself, random voter! :)

     
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    summerlovin    September 2009  

    I just got confirmation yesterday that our 3rd IUI worked.  Hopefully we have a sticky baby!  Ours were unmonitored, I just came in when I had a pos opk.  The first two I was on 50mg of clomid and for the last 100mg.  We have unexplained infertility.  Good luck!!

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    @summerlovin: Thanks for sharing and congrats! Best wishes for a sticky bean. :)

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    Well #1 did not work...here's hoping #2 does.

     
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    Sunshine1810    October 8, 2011   New Hampshire

    @summerlovin: Congratulations!!!! I hope you have a very healthy 9 months!

     

    @Mrs Green Grass: So sorry it didn't work! Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way for round 2!!

     
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    mmsva    October 9, 2010   Alexandria, VA

    @heathaah: Is there a reason they didn't use Femera instead of Clomid?

     
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    sweetkate    August 29, 2009   San Jose, CA

    Our second IUI worked for us. We used Follistim both times. I wish we had moved on to injectibles earlier instead of wasting cycles trying Clomid and Femara (we did 6 total on those). With the injectibles there is no time limit meaning you can take the injections for however long you need to. And the dose can be raised/lowered depending on how you respond. For my first cycle I was a slow responder and after 3 weeks finally had one mature follicle. With my second IUI the RE started me off at a higher dose but it still took almost 3 weeks. Near the end she had to cut my dose in half because I was getting too many follicles. Luckily after that I ended up having 3 mature (and maybe a 4th?) follicles and the IUI worked.

     

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