Post # 1
I love my dress… but everytime i look at this picture *insert* I don’t go awww thats my dress anymore… maybe i’ve looked at it too many times…
but on my way to work where i walk there is a bridal shop and there are always pretty bridal dresses…. but i know they are just to over the top for our wedding… i would feel that if i wore a “real” wedding dress that i would be out dressing everyone including my to-be husband.
has anyone else had second thoughts about their dress?
for anyone who doesn’t know what i’m doing for our wedding http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/secret-wedding-shhhh
it’s not a huge big thing so i don’t want a HUGE big dress… and when i found this i fell inlove with how simple but pretty it was.
maybe i shouldn’t look at it again for a while?
Post # 3
I totally had second thoughts about my dress but more and more everyday im realizing it was the right desicion. i say dont look at it for awhile, im sure youll love it just as much as you first did if you stay away for awhile. btw the dress is gorgeous!
Post # 4
i had 2nd thoughts on my dress 2 times. My fiance wasnt happy about it but it was cuz i was always looking at other peoples dresses and thats why i bought another one and another one after that. Im on my 3rd and final dress which i couldnt be much happier with.
Post # 5
I love my wedding dress.. i really do.. but few days after i bought it i sat in the corner like a little kid crying cause i was not sure if that the dress i wanted.. My FI was looking at me all crazy.. He kept asking me:
FI: ” do you not like your dress?”
Me: ” I like it a lot”
Him : “Then why are you crying? “
Me: I dont know!!
LOL.. its true..
I think because we grils think so much about the dress, that we get so used to it.. and it feels like we had it forever.. now we want something new.. I still look into different dresses.. every time im in a bridal store.. ill ask them to try their dress on.. and it makes me feel better about mine cause i love mine..
Its very normal to have second thoughts about your wedding dress.. and i think yours is perfect for your wedding!
Post # 6
@lonniebunny oh my gosh how funny, but sooo true!! I mean it’s “THE MOST IMPORTANT DRESS EVERRRRR” 🙂
Post # 7
Thanks ladies! good to know that i’m not the only one…. i won’t look at any wedding dresses for a while….
Post # 8
Hi date twin. Yay 10-10-10! I have doubts about mine too, but mostly I’m excited for it to come in. In any case, of course there are a ton of dresses out there that could be “the one” and it’s easy to second guess yourself about your dress, especially when there’s so much else going on (for me it’s a form of distraction). But truly, your dress is lovely and your wedding will be too. It will probably be more memorable for guests than the “real” wedding gowns you’re daydreaming about.