(Closed) Did something stupid last night – do I mention it to hubby?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
Hostess
16217 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I think I would say something just to let him know that you’re aware of how your story came across and that you’ll make a conscious effort not to let it happen again in the future. Honestly, you could tell him everything you just told us. You’re a great wife for wanting to build up and support your husband!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You are only human and sometimes, our emotions get the best of us. I don’t think you need to mention it to your husband unless you absolutely feel you need to 🙂

Post # 5
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5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would apologize regardless of how he may or may not have taken it. DH and I are like that and apoloize when we know that our hearts weren’t right on a subject. *sigh*

I would just say like

“Hey I kinda feel like I wasn’t very uplifting in sharing that story last night… Sorry if it made you feel bad in anyway.. I love you so much and you’re such a wonderful husband.. I don’t want to make you feel any different!”

I’m sure that if it didn’t bother him he’ll be fine with you apologizing b/c it bothered you and if it did kinda bother him he’ll feel affirmed that you still think he’s all that 😉

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would mention something – that way he knows you are aware of it.

I feel the same way, I don’t want to be the kind of wife who tells negative stories about my husband all the time, and if I was a bit fustrated and told a story in front of him to outsiders, I would feel bad too.

Post # 7
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572 posts
Busy bee

I agree…even if he did not notice he will appreciate hearing you say that you appreciate him.

 

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

That is always so awkward, and it happens to us all the time. The other night we were over at friends’ for dinner and they brought up something that had happened that was a bit of a sore spot between FI and I (unbeknownst to them) and it was very uncomfortable. It happens, but as long as you communicate clearly between yourselves and it’s clear you love him and he loves you, don’t worry too much about it!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Ha ha!  Yay for triple wins!  I’m glad it all turned out so well.  🙂

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