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Did you buy your husband's wedding band?

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    sondrapants    August 28th 2010   Calgary, AB

    Did you buy your husband's/fiance's wedding band or did he buy it himself?  How much did it cost?

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    I bought his. I think it was between 150-200, I can't remember exactly.

     
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    I bought my DH's band.  It cost about $300.  It's a tungsten band.  Since we were going to be merging finances anyway, I didn't see anything wrong with buying it. 

     
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    bruschetta    August 29, 2009   Philadelphia

    It may be a bit unromantic, but we bought our own instead of each others!

     
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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    I bought his.  Engraved titanium...ended up being around $120 incl. shipping and engraving.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I'm buying his. I'm not even taking any of the money from my parents for it. I'm using the sale of one of my big paintings to pay for his ring and a budoir session. :)

     
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    EngineerBride    October 31, 2009   Guilderland, NY

    We basically consider all the money "our money" now, even though we have separate accounts.  He pays for a lot of stuff - he bought both our wedding bands - but I pay the house mortgage, the electrica/cable/water bills, and we each pay other stuff.  So, we payed for it together, and we don't worry about which account it comes out of.  He's paying for most of the honeymoon though.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I bought it. After seeing what other people have paid, though, I feel embarrassed to say how much I spent ;). But I will anyway--it was about $945 after tax. It was way too much to spend, but he loved it so much and I didn't think it was fair that I got the ring of my dreams if he couldn't get his.

    But really, it didn't matter who bought it--a few months later we combined all of our finances. ;)

     
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    kdlowery    6/5/2010   Joplin

    I bought his. We got it from Amazon for $26.75 after shipping.  It was a steal! It is a tungston comfort fit band. 

     
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    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    I am having a custom titanum band made for him it is $350. When we first got engaged I bought him a tungston ring that he wears now when he is on duty. But the other ring is a special surprise. I plan to switch up on him!

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    He bought both of our wedding bands. But I've paid for all of the little wedding stuff (craft supplies, favors, etc.) and the photographers deposit myself. So it balances out. We are at the point where, while we have separate accounts, it's our money. Not his or mine.

     
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    dec09bride    12/05/2009   Texas

    I actually just ordered his ring this weekend. I am having a custom piece made, and he has no idea what it looks like. It is going to cost a little over $2000, but I wanted him to have something special. And mine cost way more than that, so I didn't really mind.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    We bought both of our wedding bands together.  He's way too picky about stuff like jewelry so I wanted him to pick it.  It cost $250, but that was after 40% off.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    we picked it out together and when we went to pay for them, he told me it was silly to write two separate checks to one person.

    I was super annoyed that he basically paid for both of mine AND his own, so since I'd already written out the check ($450), I wrote it to his name and made him cash it.

    It was just principle of the matter to me....i really wanted to write that check! =]

     
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    skibee    May 2010   New York, New York

    We bought both of our wedding bands together.  I guess my fiance is a "little prince" though.  His wedding band is 6mm platinum, and was $2500.  We also bought him a second wedding band in titanium for when he goes to the gym.  The titanium band was $150.  I was very entertained at the store.  I was not previously aware of grooms-to-be getting two wedding bands.  Of course, the saleswoman was all for it.  When I expressed skepticism, my fiance walked around the store asking everyone, "Would you want me going to the gym without a wedding band?"  How could I say "no" to that?

     
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    stormy9973    October 3, 2009   Ottawa, KS

    He actually bought both of our rings on his own at the same time!!!  When he proposed and gave me my ring, he asked if I wanted to see his!  He doesn't think its fair that I get to wear mine and he can't wear his!  Mine is actually my engagement and wedding ring all in one!  It looks like I have 3 bands, but it is only one.  I love it, because I won't have to get it soldered together afterwards!  Right now I am missing it, FI took it from me to get cleaned and polished etc. and told me I wasn't getting it back until he puts it on my finger on our wedding day!!  I pouted a little, well, alot, and told him I needed to get another one to replace the one I've been wearing, so I didn't feel naked!!  So he bought me a pretty little ring.  It was my early birthday present!  But we both laugh because it looks so tiny compared to my wedding ring!!  But I love it and I don't feel so naked anymore!!!

     
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    lavenderpug    3/10   NYC/Wedding in Half Moon Bay, CA

    i bought his, and it cost $1000 (so don't feel sheepish, marigold).

     
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    ilovenycmissie    September 2009   nyc

    we bought it together for each other; I'm going to have it engraved

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    I bought my FI's - it was somewhere in the 1000-1200 range.  I honestly don't remember, because we bought all of our wedding jewelry at the same time in addition to a bunch of other wedding expenses.  It has some bling and is white gold.  He got me what I wanted, so I reciprocated.

     
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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    He bought my ring and I bought his. His ring was about $900-but that includes the lifetime warranty.

     
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    Miss H.    9.12.09  

    I am very non-traditional and independent, so we picked out all of our rings together, including my engagement ring and we are both paying for them.  We have a joint account already, so all the money is "our money" anyway. 

     
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    bon    SEPT 25/2009  

    My FH and I designed our wedding bands together and just paid for them together. His ring was ~400 and mine ~700

     
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    maryjane    September 9, 2009   Grand Forks, ND

    I bought it! About $1400 for a custom made band with diamonds.

     
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    ke3    09.05.09   Sacramento, CA / upstate NY

    My FI and I split the cost of both of our bands. His ring was about $125, and mine was $700.

     
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    beagle    October 24, 2009  

    I bought his and will be posting about it soon!

     
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    Jamieawh    07/03/2009   San Francisco, CA

    Wow, good bargain shopping ladies. I bought my husband's wedding band, and it was in the $2,000 range (platinum with some interesting detailing).

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    I picked it out, and he didn't get to see it until the wedding.  But since all of our money is together, I guess "we" technically bought his ring.  :)  It was a custom-made palladium band for just under $700 and the engraving cost $25.

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    We designed it together and will pay for it together...  We just added both of our wedding rings into the wedding budget, since we are paying for everything ourselves.

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I bought his band, it was about $300 from the jewelry district in LA

     
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    Remi    04/10/2010   California

    I bought it... with our shared savings.  It was about $850 from www.bluenile.com.  They have sales pretty often.  After I placed the order, the ring went on sale and there was a 10% off sale.  I called and within a week they refunded my account the sale price, plus the 10% off.  They will do this for 30 days after the purchase.  They also ship next day, so you don't have to wait to receive it....

    I know this sounds like an advertisement, but whenever I deal with a company and I'm happy with the customer service, I feel like I need to let everyone else know!

     
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    KellyFP    10/10/09   MD/Wedding in FL

    He's paid for both rings, but I'm going to be paying him back for his ring since I wanted to pay for it myself. I'm cash strapped right now since I'm finishing up my last year of school. He's going to put away the money I pay him over the next few months so we can have some extra money when we go to Hawaii next year for a friend's wedding :) So it works out nicely.

     
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    kmattso2    May 22, 2010   Morris, IL

    He is paying for both of our bands.  I'm finishing my last semester right now and not working, and I am way broke! haha

    But the way I see it, it doesn't really matter, because it will be our money as soon as the wedding is over anyways.

     
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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    I bought it. Actually I just ordered it a few days ago!!!!

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    I bought his and my wedding bands. White and yellow gold, $350 per.

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    sjbee    6/20/2009   Los Angeles/ SF Bay Area

    We bought it together. Plain gold band with milgrain edge from eweddingbands.com. I think it cost $350 or so. He loves it! 

     
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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    My husband chose a beautiful artistic one of a kind ring... with a price tag more than I could afford so I paid for 1/2 of it because I didnt like the idea of him buying his own ring and 1/2 was the best i could do.

     
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    I bought his--it was $1,995, and perfect.  It has the same celtic knot as mine (which he bought), and complements my engagement ring (which he bought)beautifully.  We picked them out together, though, so we knew how much we were spending.  He wanted to buy his own, but I insisted, as he had spent plenty on my rings.  We haven't combined bank accounts just yet, but we do look at things as "ours".

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    we went last night and I bought his and he bought mine with warrenty and stuff his was 500 but he weres a size 14 and got a thick 14 carret band its what he wanted so we got it.

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    wow now i dont feel so bad spending 500 hundred lol.

     
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    I wanted to buy his ring but he insisted on using his grandfather's wedding band that was left to him. I think the sentiment behind that is very sweet. :)

     

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