Post # 1
For those of you already married, did you end up consummating your marriage on your wedding night or did you just fall to sleep in a heap? People plan to wear lovely little things to excite their mate on their wedding night but I’m just curious how many people actually do the deed that night.
I’ve heard that not many people have the energy left in them to get to it the night of so I’m wondering what my very scientific survey will reveal. Should be fun!
Post # 3
LOL we were both drunk. Me especially so. We got to our hotel room (after I tried to program the elevator to take us to the 30th floor of a 6-story building) and took off our wedding finery, and apparently, based on clues discovered the next day, I went on a quest to find the sexy lingerie I had brought for us to do the deed in. It was very cleverly hidden right on top of the one bag I had brought.
I evidently found the lingerie, but perhaps forgot the ultimate goal and was plenty pleased with myself for merely locating the garments. I did not put them on — I just fell naked into bed next to DH and we both snored away til morning. We did the deed in the AM, though — after a thorough teeth-brushing because DAYAMMMMM hangover-breath is foul.
Post # 4
I’ve been wondering this, too. Waiting for answers from married Bees!
Post # 5
We did. However I really didnt have any fancey underthings. My dress had an open back so no bra and I wore cute comfy white panties with black lace trim.
I was so exhausted but it felt a little like a right of passage so we went for it.
We also ordered a pizza….. it never came!!!!
Post # 6
We did. DH kept telling everyone to stop handing him drinks and said, “we gotta make it back to the hotel!” lol Yeah, he was tipsy but he sobered up by the end of the night. He did better than some of my friends’ DH who ended up getting smashed on their wedding night.
Post # 7
@iarebridezilla: Ha ha ha! Very nice! You cracked me up.
Post # 8
We hadn’t planned on doing it (I brought the lingerie just in case) and had even discussed it before hand so that there would be no hurt feelings. However, when we got back to our room we just couldn’t help ourselves even though we were exhausted. And it wasn’t exactly a quickie either 😉
Post # 9
@LilRhodyGem: Hells yes we did! Twice!
We were also trying for a baby, though!
Post # 10
Yes, but minus the fancy things. I forgot underwear for even the day of so there was no going fancy lol
Post # 11
Oh hell no. Time for sleep.
Post # 12
Is sort of an answer? lol
My husband carried me over the treshhold of the hotel room, helped me out of my dress, we got into our regular PJ’s (no sexyness there!), and shared a Cliff bar I had in my bag. We then sat on our bed and opened all our cards, taking turns reading them to each other. Then we had ‘functional’ sex and slept like the dead.
I’m not sure if this is normal or not but that is exactly what went down!
The little bits o’ lacey things were reserved for the honeymoon.
Post # 13
We were both drunk, I had apparently put on my wedding lingerie, and he has apparently begun to take it off… but then sleep came over me. I woke up with the top of my lingerie, off and hanging off me. Opps.
We did it in the morning, and went back to sleep afterwards.
Post # 14
@LilRhodyGem: were not married yet but I couldn’t imagine NOT doing the deed afterwards..
Post # 15
@LilRhodyGem: Honestly I’m just glad I stopped short of trying to put the lingerie on. It was a complex corseted little number and I probably would have ended up waking up on the floor with a thong on my head.
Post # 16
We did, twice. After getting back to our room (and I had a small cry-fest of happy tears), we enjoyed a jacuzzi bath together which turned into more… and then got frisky again after crawling into bed.