Did you consummate your wedding on your wedding night?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you do the deed on your wedding night?
    Hell yes! That fancy lingerie was worth the money! : (176 votes)
    68 %
    No way! We were exhausted! : (61 votes)
    23 %
    We tried but sleep came before we did! : (11 votes)
    4 %
    Um... I don't remember much after the reception. *hiccup* : (12 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    4413 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    LOL we were both drunk. Me especially so. We got to our hotel room (after I tried to program the elevator to take us to the 30th floor of a 6-story building) and took off our wedding finery, and apparently, based on clues discovered the next day, I went on a quest to find the sexy lingerie I had brought for us to do the deed in. It was very cleverly hidden right on top of the one bag I had brought.

    I evidently found the lingerie, but perhaps forgot the ultimate goal and was plenty pleased with myself for merely locating the garments. I did not put them on — I just fell naked into bed next to DH and we both snored away til morning. We did the deed in the AM, though — after a thorough teeth-brushing because DAYAMMMMM hangover-breath is foul.

    Post # 4
    140 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’ve been wondering this, too. Waiting for answers from married Bees!

    Post # 5
    1022 posts
    Bumble bee

    We did. However I really didnt have any fancey underthings. My dress had an open back so no bra and I wore cute comfy white panties with black lace trim.

    I was so exhausted but it felt a little like a right of passage so we went for it.

    We also ordered a pizza….. it never came!!!!

    Post # 6
    1722 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We did.  DH kept telling everyone to stop handing him drinks and said, “we gotta make it back to the hotel!”  Embarassed  lol  Yeah, he was tipsy but he sobered up by the end of the night.  He did better than some of my friends’ DH who ended up getting smashed on their wedding night.

    Post # 8
    6457 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We hadn’t planned on doing it (I brought the lingerie just in case) and had even discussed it before hand so that there would be no hurt feelings. However, when we got back to our room we just couldn’t help ourselves even though we were exhausted. And it wasn’t exactly a quickie either 😉

    Post # 9
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @LilRhodyGem:  Hells yes we did! Twice!

    We were also trying for a baby, though!

    Post # 10
    7654 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes, but minus the fancy things. I forgot underwear for even the day of so there was no going fancy lol

    Post # 11
    4139 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Oh hell no. Time for sleep. 

    Post # 12
    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Is sort of an answer? lol

    My husband carried me over the treshhold of the hotel room, helped me out of my dress, we got into our regular PJ’s (no sexyness there!), and shared a Cliff bar I had in my bag. We then sat on our bed and opened all our cards, taking turns reading them to each other. Then we had ‘functional’ sex and slept like the dead.

    I’m not sure if this is normal or not but that is exactly what went down!

    The little bits o’ lacey things were reserved for the honeymoon. 

    Post # 13
    4819 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We were both drunk, I had apparently put on my wedding lingerie, and he has apparently begun to take it off… but then sleep came over me. I woke up with the top of my lingerie, off and hanging off me. Opps.

    We did it in the morning, and went back to sleep afterwards.

    Post # 15
    4413 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @LilRhodyGem:  Honestly I’m just glad I stopped short of trying to put the lingerie on. It was a complex corseted little number and I probably would have ended up waking up on the floor with a thong on my head.

    Post # 16
    2578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We did, twice. After getting back to our room (and I had a small cry-fest of happy tears), we enjoyed a jacuzzi bath together which turned into more… and then got frisky again after crawling into bed.

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