Post # 1
It’s hard to explain but I find myself expecting my Fiance to do more now. Even little stuff like load the dishwasher. We don’t live together but I just want to make sure I don’t end up doing EVERYTHING like my mother and his mother do. I feel like I’m nagging more and that’s no good! We have talked about it and he understands. He helps a ton now and it’s great. It’s not really a “problem” per se, I was just wondering if anyone else feel/felt this way?
Post # 3
I am more stressed than ever now that the wedding is less than a month away. I do wish that when I got home or while I was out doing wedding errands that he could do some stuff around the around instead of doing nothing… He does help around the house, but I always have to ask and that gets frustrating. It is no different than it was when we moved in together, but now that I am more stressed than ever and busier than ever I do wish he would help more. I don’t think guys realize how much work planning a wedding really is.
Post # 4
@funkyone8604: I don’t think they do either! I also think there’s a difference in how men and women operate because a woman will figure out what needs to be done and do it, whereas a man will wait until asked.