- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
ok so this is the story… sorry if i’m over complicating things
There’s a girl from work, i’ll call her Anne.
Anne if from city A, and i am from city B.
we were both living and working in city A until some changes at our company made it necessary for someone to be transferred to B. B is a 4 hour drive from A, so neither of us wanted to transfer (i lived hapily in A and so did my SO, even if i love my home town)
Anyways, company decided to transfer Anne to B because, well, i’m better at the job that we were both doing in city A, which she did not think was “fair” because I am from B… so she “not so secretly” held somewhat of a grudge on me.
A few months after, Anne announces her engagement and since Anne’s parents are friends with one of the companie’s “big fish”, a year after being transferred to B, Anne marries and returns to her job in city A, making company “force” me to leave to another office, because her position no longer exists. She takes my position. Anne invites the whole of office A and even 2 ex coworkers which had left the previous year for other reasons. She does not invite me to her wedding.
Fast forward another year and now i’m getting married. I have asked to be transferred back to city A, hoping that it will happen, since the economy is getting somewhat better and they could use another person. Boss from city A has even personally asked the company to return me to city A because they “need me”.
I decided to invite the whole office A to my wedding as I still have a close relashionship with all coworkers and boss, but not at all with anne. I still invited Anne, because i thought it was the polite thing to do, specially if i return to A. I did not expect her to come, bot thought it would be extremely rude to invite everyone except for her (like she did to me). Even two months ago i was visiting Fiance in city A and met with all my ex coworkers to give them their invites. Anne did not show up but told coworkers she was not going. so i gave someone else her invite to give to her. she never called, congratulated me or said anything about it.
Anne just wrote me an e-mail RSVPing to my wedding…
IS THIS WEIRD OR WHAT???
why would she want to go?
she RSVP’d to ALL the different things on the list: pre wedding party, wedding, reception and “will be using transportation provided”. She will also be attending with her husband, and having to take a 4 hour drive, spend the weekend and pay for 2 night hotel
Would you bee’s go to a wedding to which you were obvoisly only invited out of “politeness”
I feel it’s very strange