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Did you make whoopee on your wedding night?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you make whoopee on your wedding night?
    Hells yeah! Wouldn't have thought otherwise. : (54 votes)
    56 %
    Sure...but we totally could have skipped it. : (16 votes)
    17 %
    Nope...went to bed. : (21 votes)
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    Other : (5 votes)
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    corn    September 8, 2007   Boston, MA

    Mr Corn and I did...but I will be honest...I was super tired and totally could have been talked into just going to bed. Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Redface

    I had heard prior to the wedding that many people actually DON'T have sex on their wedding night because they are too exhausted or because they didn't eat all day so they just passed out.

    So, did you or didn't you?

     
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    egad    August 3, 2008   Vancouver, BC

    Nope, we didn't.  Once we got back to our hotel room, we reminisced about the day for maybe an hour, then snuggled to sleep!

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    We did!  We had abstained for several weeks leading up to the wedding so that we would be motivated.  Let's just say, by wedding night we were very motivated!

     
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    EK    October 12, 2008   Seattle, WA

    The benefits of a daytime wedding. :-)

     

     
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    Twalison    July 26, 2008   Brooklyn, NY

    I second the benefits of a daytime wedding! :)

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    julieulie    05/25/08   Washington, DC

    We were about to... when my MIL called, at 3:30am.  I told my husband if he answered his phone I would nullify the marriage, but he figured his mother would call only in a hue emergency.  Turns out she drank too much at the after-party, lost track of time, and was calling to ask if we were with her niece because she hadn't come back to the hotel room.  Yes, that's right, my MIL called at 3:30am on our wedding night.

    After that totally ruined the mood, we just went to bed.

     
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    flamingo    June 21, 2008   Montreal, Qc Canada

    haha - never thought it would happen... but we were so exhausted we went to bed. I really dont regret it

     
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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    Julie, that is the saddest thing I have ever heard!

     
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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    not married yet, but I hope so!  I'll be checking back in to see results!

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    We were both tired, but found the time.  We each had a surprise for each other, so it was one time per surprise. Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Biggrin

     
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    Bunnylove08    October 12, 2008   NYC

    We did, i think my hubby just wanted to do it so I wouldnt complain later that we didnt do it on our wedding night Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Razz

     
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    salex19    10-12-08   Washington, DC

    We did!  I think its worth it even if you are tired. 

     
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    aspring    7/19/08   Virginia

    We too had an afternoon wedding, so that left plenty of energy and time. We'd been together for 7.5 years before we got married and that night was very memorable! Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding 1064 Winking Yellow Smiley

     
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    chemchopity    10/04/2008   Dayton

    we did, BUT... our wedding was in the early afternoon and our reception was two months later. i would have to say that if the wedding and the reception were the same day, it might not have happened.

     
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    lunapark    8/23/08   New York, NY

    thirding daytime wedding benefits!

     
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    pinotnoir    October 2008   NYC

    Just chiming in on the benefits of day time weddings!

     
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    brandonsbride    7/11/2009   Hume Lake, ca

    Our wedding isn't until July 11.... we've been together for 4.5 years and still haven't been intimate in that way or even kissed!!! So I guess the answer is MOST DEFINITELY!!! especially after waiting that long I don't care if I'm tired!

     
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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    We didn't...my husband got sick, throwing up in the bathroom on our wedding night! He had gotten so nervous and hadn't eaten well, and his sensitive stomach threw a fit about 15 minutes after checking into the hotel. He was up all night moaning and groaning....it was awful. I said to him, "Honey, in my vows I said "in sickness and in health," but I didn't think I would be experiencing "in sickness" quite this soon."

    Then at the airport the next morning waiting for our flight to Puerto Rico where we were taking a cruise from, he could barely walk he was so weak. I called my mom in tears afraid we were going to have to cancel our trip... 12 hours married and already I had to call my mom! Thank goodness for moms. Thankfully after we got going on our honeymoon he got a full day's rest and then was totally recuperated. It sort of sucked at the time but now it's a funny story :).

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    Not married yet, but FI told me he doesn't want to wait until that night! We may disappear earlier in the day.

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    beesknees    04.19.08   Florida

    despite, sexy lingerie, lovely candlelight and a gorgeous room.  we ended up jsut snuggling.  as much as the heart wanted, the body was just too tuckered out.  we made up for it all week though  

     
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    MissEdamame    July 2009  

    We decided back during our first two months of dating that we would wait until we got married to be intimate. Fast forward seven years, and here we are 3 months away from the big day! That day will be crazy busy, and we'll definitely be exhausted, but as it will be the first time for both of us, I'm certainly hoping that we'll be able to fit that in! If not, however, I'm sure that the night after our first full day as a married couple would be perfectly fine if that is how it ends up.

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    We planned many months before our wedding day that we would not put the pressure on eachother to "do it" on our wedding night. We planned to just snuggle together.  We had an evening wedding and didn't get back to our suite until around 3:00 am.  After 7 years together, we knew we would enjoy each other more in the morning - and we did!!  I think every couple is different and as long as you are both on the same page, you will know the right decision for the two of you :)

     
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    Mrs DS    2nd April 2009  

    Urrrrno. Unfortunately - I was the one that was ill that night... Ladies troubles.Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Redface So we spent the night talking and reading wedding cards, and opening gifts. But we sure made up for it a week laterDid you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Biggrin

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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    totally! but - we're one of those who our WEDDING is a year away (june 2010) but we got married april 13 of this year (last week) so that he could get insurance!! :P

    course - the night of our real wedding, next year - yeah probably not. 

     
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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    We'd been living together for a few years and I was thinking that we would be tired and we'd have our whole honeymoon to get lucky.  And we WERE tired!  We didnt get to our room until about 3 am. On any other day, snuggles and sleep please!  But we were MARRIED! this was my HUSBAND and not my fiance.  We made love, it was magical, and I wouldn't have traded it for sleep for anything.  (yes - i know how cheesy that sounded but its true!)

     
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    kim0309    March 28, 2009   VA

    We passed out that night but the next morning..... Did you make whoopee on your wedding night? :  wedding Icon Wink

     
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    underneathy    05/02/09   southern california

    Another daytime wedding bride chiming in !

     

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