(Closed) Did you notice their shoes?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Same shoes or different for two girls
    Same shoe : (4 votes)
    11 %
    Same color : (16 votes)
    42 %
    who cares, go with original plan of whatever they want to wear! : (18 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    No one is going to notice their shoes. Just let them wear whatever shoes they want 

    Post # 4
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    1497 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I had to buy a certain color shoe for a wedding, and I never wore it again, so I’m not going that route with my BMs. I don’t think people will notice, unless someone is wearing a really bright, unmatching color.

    Post # 5
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    1685 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think it’s OK to ask them to get a similar color shoe.  My female friends and I borrow each other’s shoes whenever we need to be in a wedding.  Someone always has a silver or gold pair in their closet.

    Post # 6
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    2462 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    i had my girls wear whatever black shoes they wanted. beyond color i personally never notice if they’re matching or not

    Post # 8
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    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    The majority of people won’t notice the shoe if they are same color family and if they have long dresses. My girls have long dresses, but I’m paying four pairs of shoes for them, my other bridesmaid isn’t into high heels so I bought her a pair of flats.

    Post # 9
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    6127 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I had to buy a particular pair of shoes for my cousin’s wedding. It really kind of pissed me off because her thing was she wanted “gold glitter” shoes…well I already had a nice pair but she decided that they didn’t match because they weren’t pumps. So now I have a pair of shoes I probably won’t ever wear again…not to mention, our dresses were long and no one ever saw our shoes.

    If you want them to be semi matching, just tell them to wear a specific color but leave the rest up to them. (I’m asking mine to wear any pair of black shoes)

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