(Closed) Did you receive less RSVP’s than your first wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Encore
Post # 3
2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is both Fiance and I’s second marriage, but first wedding. Our declines were right at the 50% mark until we changed the date. Now, they are at about 35-40%. I’m glad. I don’t want someone there that isn’t excited!

Post # 4
7342 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

No, almost everyone accepted for both weddings.  I must be likeable 🙂

Post # 5
11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

this was a encore for both of us.  we had a small wedding.  the only declines were from out of province or out of country guests and that was only 5 ppl.  (some did travel)  we weren’t expecting his family to travel from england but sent an invite out of courtesy.

so i guess it was about 10%

everyone in town gladly came.

Post # 6
595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We expect a large number of no’s.  We are having a destination wedding and are only inviting about 40 people.  Compared to our first wedding, this weding will be tiny.

Post # 7
4 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Happy7:  I am an encore bride. Married the first time in 6 1/2 yrs ago, divorec after 7 months. I am absolutely recieving less RSVP’s this time as well. I also wondered if it was because this was my 2nd time.

Post # 9
6124 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

We had no guests so no RSVPs for the first wedding.


This time we may have just two guests (his parents) or none.  Haven’t decided how we want to do this.

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