(Closed) Did you share your vows?

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It was a surprise. I actually wrote mine the night before the wedding! If your fiance speaks from his heart there is no way he’ll sound stupid.

Post # 4
1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I write for a living, so I’d really like to see my FI’s before he reads them to me. He has refused though. He says they are his vows and he will write them how he wants to, lol. It will be a surprise on the day of (though he’s very sweet and romantic and writes me love letters almost daily – so I have a good sense of what he will say).

Your Fiance will not sound stupid – it’s coming from his heart and is truly meaningful as opposed to just reading words someone else said. My guess is he’s just nervous to speak in public but that will fade. All he needs to do is look at you 🙂 It’s like when people say they got you a *thoughtful* card…all they did was pick it, how much thought goes into that? I always write my own so it’s true to the nature of the relationship and not just, yeah, whatever they said.

We plan to frame our vows with our wedding photos somehow…I leave the creative stuff to him and I’m sure it will look great 🙂

Post # 5
9629 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

We wrote our vows together and practiced them with each other so we’d have them memorized for our wedding day.  It worked out perfectly.  🙂

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