Did you show your FI your dress before the wedding?

posted 3 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Did you show your FI your dress before the wedding?
    Yes : (40 votes)
    23 %
    No : (135 votes)
    77 %
  • Post # 3
    2896 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    he didn’t see my dress, but i showed him pictures of lots of dresses- some similar to mine and some completely different- to see what he thought about the different styles. after our wedding i asked him if my dress was what he had expected. he said it wasn’t what he expected, but it was what he wanted. thank goodness we have similar tastes, hah.

    Post # 4
    918 posts
    Busy bee

    I showed him the stock photo, but he won’t see me in the dress until the day of the wedding.

    Post # 5
    2062 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @dancindavinci:  My husband picked out my wedding dress with me. I had way too much anxiety to not show him before. It didn’t take anything away from our big day 🙂 In fact, it helped me to enjoy it more.


    Post # 6
    2167 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    No, I truly don’t think he wants to see it!

    Post # 7
    6194 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I did- he didn’t even come close to remembering what it looked like.

    Post # 8
    7630 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I showed him lots of dress photos to get his opinion. That was before I bought it though. It’s risky to ask his opinion after! 

    Post # 9
    1311 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 1994

    I didn’t

    Post # 10
    1574 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I did, but we eloped so it wasn’t a very traditional wedding. We were shopping at teh mall and I walked past a dark purple dress I really liked, and he encouraged me to try it on. I said I really loved it, and loved it enough to get married in it. I wished it was white though. He had no problem seeing me in it. I figured I’d buy it but still look to see if I could find it in white, and then wear it to a friend’s wedding if I did find it (we’d already been invited). Found it online, so ordered it. He said it was okay with him b/c even though he saw me in it, i didn’t have my hair done, shoes, etc. 

    Post # 11
    1035 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    No way!! The only people who saw my dress were my Mum who came shopping with me, and my sister (MOH) who couldn’t shop so I showed her a pic online. 

    DH didn’t want to see it before, he wouldn’t have looked, even if I had showed him. 

    Post # 12
    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I did show him stock photos of the dresses I was considering, and the one I ended up choosing. But since then, I’ve changed my dress…so he has no idea what I’ll be walking down the aisle in.

    Post # 13
    16 posts
    • Wedding: July 2014

    We both flew to New York to shop for my wedding dress, so I saw no other alternatives

    Post # 14
    161 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I want to show him my dress but he doesn’t want too. He said it will spoil the surprised and “the moment” hehe. He wants to save that moment of seeing me on my dress for the first time for our family to witness… 

    Post # 15
    433 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    He has seen stock photos of dresses that I liked but he doesn’t know which one I chose.

    Post # 16
    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @dancindavinci:  I showed my fiance my dress when I found it at the end of August beginning of September. We were about a year out, he’ll forget all about it anyways. It would have bugged him if I were showing everyone else while he was around as the first dress I found did (ended up changing mind about first dress, love my new dress)

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