Did you show your fiancé your dress

posted 3 years ago in Dress
  • poll:
    Yes : (45 votes)
    26 %
    No : (131 votes)
    74 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    He helped me picked it out and came to the final fitting with me.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    He saw a model picture of a bunch of my final contenders, just to make sure he didn’t hate any of them. But he didn’t remember it at all by the time the wedding came around.

    Post # 5
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    1952 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    When it came in, I did. He helped me figure out where to take it in, but when I put it on before the wedding he insisted on looking away until it was time.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Yes. He helped me pick it out… we did everything for the wedding together.

    Post # 7
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    562 posts
    Busy bee

    No, but he’s dying to see it, I know! He needs to wait until I’m walking down that aisle to marry him, though 🙂 It’s a moment we’re looking forward to

    Post # 8
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    2831 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    he’s seen it. he saw all of the dresses i tried on.

    he doesn’t know which one i chose though.

    Post # 9
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    476 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    He saw the dress as a group of dresses I wanted to try on.  He’s my bestie so I love to use him as a springboard for ideas.  He also happened to see pix of me trying on the dress.  I didn’t havey hair done or a veil so it’ll look totally different to him on our big day.

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I’d love to show him, but he’s adament about not seeing it… he won’t even look at my closet anymore (kind of hard, since mine is directly next to his) because it’s in there.

    He knows the basics of what it looks like, though. (short, white, retro, can wear a petticoat, etc.)

    Post # 11
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    370 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    No. He doesn’t want to see it until our wedding day.  He feels that seeing it beforehand would be a disappointment.  Call us us old-fashioned, but we both feel the mystery is part of the fun!   That being said, I know what styles he likes to see me in, so my ultimate dress choice had his likes in mind as much as my own.

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I wanted him to come with me to pick it out, but he’s traditional like that. He’s adamant of not seeing it, but lately, he’s been wanting to, and I’ve been the one telling him no 🙂

    Post # 13
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    1101 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    He saw pictures of the finished product after it was made and he has also seen pictures of me in it as well.

    Post # 14
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    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Nope, both of us want it to be a surprise for him on our wedding day!

    Post # 15
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    417 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    He’s seen it, but he doesn’t know that its the one I picked.  I remember when I first tried it on I was telling him how much I loved this dress.  I had gone with my friend for her first fitting and tried it on only because she made me and I loved it.  He wanted to see the picture so I sent it to him and he liked it.  I told him I still had to do the whole shopping trip with my mom and wasn’t 100% sold.  When I told him I got one I said it was from a different store so he thinks its not the dress he saw.

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    He’s seen a picture of the designer’s picture of the dress maybe twice but that’s it, he’ll forget what it looks like anyway. I didn’t mean for him to see what kind of dress I’d be wearing but I had fallen in love with it online and loved it in real life but when it came to putting down a deposit, I chose a different dress that everyone else but me loved (I got caught up in their moment) because of the price difference.  So when I told him I got a different dress he asked if he could see a pic of the dress I had been going on and on about and when he saw it his reaction made me cry about the bad decision I had made about the other dress. Fast forward a few weeks (and tears) later, he told me to get the dress of my dreams and not to worry about the cost, we’d make it work. He really wants to see me in the dress and I can’t wait till he does on our big day!!!

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