(Closed) Did your fiance come to your bridal shower?

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Did your fiance come to the bridal shower?
    Yes he was there the entire time. : (4 votes)
    15 %
    Yes, but he came at the end to help open some gifts and pack the car, or at the beginning to say hi : (13 votes)
    50 %
    No, he didn't come but I wish he did! : (0 votes)
    No, he didn't come at all and I'm fine with that. : (9 votes)
    35 %
  • Post # 3
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    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Congrats on your shower!

    yes, my hubby showed up at the end with roses and a card for me and to thank everyone for coming. It was important to me as it’s tradition in our family. I didn’t expect the roses though!

    Post # 4
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    124 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I didn’t vote because none of them apply.  My Fi brought me to the shower, came in and said hello (especially because MANY of the guests were his family), and had a bite to eat, then left before gifts and games. 🙂

    Post # 5
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    286 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I’ve been to a lot of showers and the groom always shows up at the end. I expect FH to do the same when its my turn.

    Post # 6
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    515 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Clark Gardens

    By the time FI arrived almost everyone had already left…so I voted but my choice wasn’t really up there.

    Post # 7
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    6824 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Nope my DH, FI at the time was not at the shower nor did I want him at the shower. He went golfing with his dad, and brother since his dad was in town with his mom.

    Post # 9
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    3012 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I highly doubt J comes unless it’s at the very end to help me pack up and transport gifts.  I don’t recall any bridal showers that I’ve been to that the future hubby showed up or even stayed.  Our family is traditional and it’s been strictly for women.

    Post # 10
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    7300 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’ve never been to a bridal shower where the groom shows up at the end. I’ve only heard about it online. I’m sure Mr. Tattoo will show up since my MOH is planning my bridal shower in my hometown (in another state) and we will probably wait until very close to the wedding so that his grandmother and step mom can attend.

    Post # 11
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    1276 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Congrats on your shower! My FI happened to be there the entire time but originally he was just going to show up at the end to thank everyone. I don’t think you have anything to worry about since you had a surprise shower and it sounds like your groom would have been there if he could’ve. 

    Post # 12
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    996 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    One of our showers was a couples shower so he was there the whole time. For the other shower, he dropped me off and then came over when it was done. Most of the husbands/boyfriends came over when it was done and we just relaxed, had drinks and ate all of the leftover food. It was great 🙂

    Post # 13
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    My shower is a “surprise” even though I know when it is. I made sure to mention the tradition to FI so he knows that he has to show up towards the end. I’d actually really like for him to be there to help me open the gifts but I don’t know if he’ll make it for that. I also may have mentioned that bringing me flowers would be nice but we’ll see if he remembers that part.:)

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