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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    Hello Bees,

    I'm pretty much decided on wearing a reception dress because I will be married in Mexico and to wear my full length gown all day and night would be pretty toasty! I thought I found a great dress to wear, but it's no longer available because I waited too long to purchase :(

    I'm on the hunt again! Please post any photos of you (or photos you have saved) in short wedding dresses or white cocktail dresses :)

    Thanks!! I need some inspiration..

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I was going to wear a reception dress, but I got talked out of it because "your gown is so beautiful, why would you want to wear another dress?".

    Here are my inspirations pictures. The 1142 one is an Alfred Angelo and the Gown one is and inspiration picture that I found on a replica site, but I don't remember which one. I was going to have my seamstress make it for me, if I chose that one.

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    nil    July 22, 2011   Belgium

    i'll be wairing a saree for the ceremony and demetrios 4279 for the reception :)

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    Theresa90405    April 10, 2010   Santa Monica, CA

    I had a fairly casual wedding and wore tea length. So I didn't change into a reception dress.

    But I almost considered wearing this J Crew "Lydia" dress in pewter for my wedding. Ended up wearing it to the rehearsal dinner.

    It's no longer on J Crew's site but there are a ton of these on ebay. And in some pretty, bright colors too...which would look great at a Mexican destination wedding if you want to do something other than white.

     

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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    Thanks ladies! Love the dress ideas :) I'm thinking I'll probably wear something pretty short though...above the knee? What are your thoughts on that? Obviously I'm not going to wear some trashy with my butt hanging out, but I like the idea of a fun little cocktail dress for the "party" half of our wedding. I still haven't found the right one though....

     
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    cabanagrl9    May 14, 2011   New York, NY

    I really like 2.  The first picture I like the one on the right.  This is the one I originally wanted, but I am not 100% anymore!

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    tseay    April 3, 2011   Atlanta

    I am seriously considering it, but I wouldn't get a casual dress. It would definitely be another wedding gown, but with a little more sex appeal or maybe a little more fun and flity. I absolutely adore my wedding gown, but it has a cathedral train with tons of beautiful lace, bead work, and a little tulle. So I'd be excited to do something different for the reception (think mermaid or vintage tea length).

     
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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    @cabanagrl9: The dress on the right in the first picture is totally my style. Love that! Do you know who makes it?

    @tseay: We're going to be in Mexico, so although I love the idea of a tea length gown I know I'm going to get hot in the forecasted 30+ degree (86+ fahreheit) weather (plus I love to dance so I don't want to be too sweaty lol).

     
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    cabanagrl9    May 14, 2011   New York, NY

    I cant remember who makes it, but its sold at Bella Bridesmaid.  I am not sure if they have any in Canada, but it doesnt hurt to find out!

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    I considered it too, but my mom flipped out when I mentioned it, LOL.  She paid for my wedding dress, and kept going on and on about how much she spent, etc.

    This is also completely lame - I have always been excited about the idea of FI "undressing" me on our wedding night.  I wonder if it would have the same effect if it isn't your actual wedding dress?  Also --our wedding is in the dead of winter, so I would be freezing in all the little reception dresses I liked :-)

     
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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    @cabanagrl9: Doesn't look like we have one, but there is a store in Seattle and a trip there is my next option if I can't find anything in Vancouver. I'm probably going to just have to go shopping in Vancouver and hope to find something...although Robson street is promising :)

    @Lindsay12.31.2010: That's funny because my mom paid for my gown too, but she's still excited for me to have two :) She really wants me to show off my legs for some reason....haha!

     

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    @mrs.peters.to.be - Lucky you! When I first suggested it, my mom looked like someone ran over her dog.  "You don't like your dress?" "What is wrong with it?" etc.  I was like, forget it, LOL.  Here is the one I was considering - I almost bought it for the reheasal dinner in pink, but found another dress.  I may still get this, maybe we will have an after party?

    http://ardenb.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=136&subCategoryId=583&productId=40208

     
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    MissTatas    August 6, 2011   Minneapolis, MN

    I am waiting for this beaut from Anthropologie to go on sale so I can buy it for a reception dress. My fear is that I am going to end up with a lot of them. The good thing is my dress code at the prom dress store where I work is white, black,and grey so I can get away with rewearing them.

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding Anthropologie

    I would also recommend looking at Mori Lee Affairs bridesmaids line. A lot of the gowns (all of the chiffon ones) come in white or ivory.

     
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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    I think my biggest problem may be that I'm hung up on Marchesa minis. I love them to death. Some of this designers gowns are really out there, but I just love all the intricate details and feminine touches. Here is some eye candy...drool worthy I think! (the only problem is some of them of TOO mini!)

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding Marchesa Spring 2011 Short Dresses

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding Marchesa Mini

     
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    ysl1983    May 5, 2012  

    Here's mine =)

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding Suewong1

     
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    ysl1983    May 5, 2012  

    btw, Sue Wong sells a short version of this dress

     
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    jamiemichelle    October 16, 2010   North Carolina

    This was my reception dress... it's a little out of the norm. I wanted it to match my husbands dress blues =)

    heres a simi decent picture of the beading and such

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding 71592 459000792375 559262375 5349698 1542741 N

    and this is what it looked like from a distance

    Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding 73676 459001862375 559262375 5349744 1352738 N

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    @jamiemichelle - I LOVE your reception dress! 

    Totally off the wall, but has anyone ever told you that you look a lot like Emma Stone?  LOL.Did you/Will you ladies wear a reception dress? Let's seem em!! :) :  wedding Emma20Stone DGG 019196

     
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    elliestan    October 15, 2011   OK | TX

    @jamiemichelle: sdgkljsdlkjglskdjfldsk GORGEOUS!!! I love how you matched his blues - aww! (I second the Emma Stone comparison, though I think you're even prettier!)

     
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    cabanagrl9    May 14, 2011   New York, NY

    @mrs.peters.to.be:  I L.O.V.E. the one with the bow.  Dakota Fanning wore it to some red carpet and I fell in love!  Do you know how much it is???

     
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    jamiemichelle    October 16, 2010   North Carolina

    @ Lindsay12.31.2010

    haha yeah I get that pretty much everyday I go outside of my house =) My dad always tells me I need to go to Hollywood to be her sister in all her movies... or her stunt double; whichever pays more

     

    @elliestan- thank you thank you, you're far too kind ;)

     
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    amyloufustino    June 29, 2012  

    I wore this for my civil ceremony and plan to wear it for my rehearsal dinner....its short & sexy & well I'm just a lil biased I suppose lol.

     

     

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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    @jamiemichelle: Thanks for sharing. I really like the style of your dress. Good job matching hubbie! I would totally go for that dress in white if they made it! Could you tell me who its by?

    @cabanagrl9: My woes over the Marchesa dresses pretty much surround the cost. I'm pretty sure the only way to get one is to order direct through the designer because I have yet to find a retailer. They don't even list the prices (sort of YSL/Gucci style) which makes me guess that they are uber expensive because the website says, "call for enquires and orders." I've only ever seen them on the likes of Halle Berry, Dakota Fanning, Cameron Diaz, etc.

    Thanks to all the other ladies who have posted. I think I need to get some more ideas and then hit the stores to try on some different styles!

     
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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    Our wedding and reception are on different days, so I'm wearing a simple outfit for the ceremony (which is at the courthouse) and then this dress (the color is not that yucky! It's a beautiful bottle green) for the reception the next day.http://www.younkers.com/shop/women/dresses-social-occasion/cocktail-dresses/xscape-short-satin-ruched-ruffle-neck-cap-sleeve-dress-olive_324784.html?query=xscape

     
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    ItalianLady    September 4, 2010  

    @jamiemichelle: Where do you live? Because I'm about to come steal that FABULOUS DRESS !

     
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    Betsey Johnson has some super cute cocktail dresses!

     
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    No I didn't but my mom wanted me to get a reception dress.  I honestly didn't have the money or time to buy another dress.  If I had the money, sure, I would have loved to go shopping for a cute reception dress.

     
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    jamiemichelle    October 16, 2010   North Carolina

    @Mrs.Peters.To.Be

    It came from Macys... I got really lucky because it was the very last one there and it was a size 6! I actually bought it out of the petite section, which is crazy enough in itself because I'm 5'10". I can't recall the brand off the top of my head, but when I get home I can tell you.

    @ItalianLady

    hahaha I would totally pass it on... I'm just so attached to it! I keep thinking I'll get another chance to wear it though... some day! I got way more compliments on it than my wedding dress; my gay cousin raved about it for hours! It actually cost darn near what my wedding dress cost, but that's because I bought a sample wedding dress. It was a MAJOR splurge, but I'd totally do it all over again =)

     
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    mrs.peters.to.be    April 12, 2011   Northern British Columbia, Canada

    @Belle2Be: Good idea!! One designer I have yet to browse for a mini :)

    @jamiemichelle: Thank you, I'd appreciate that. Maybe I can get lucky and find one on ebay or a replica of some sorts :)

    @amyloufustino: Thanks for sharing your pictures too! For some reason my computer scrolled right past them last time or they just didn't show up..hmm..

     
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    Simplicitydal    April 12, 2013   Dallas, TX

    @mrs.peters.to.be: OMG,these dresses are to die for. I love the first three especially the one on the far right. I already spent way too much money on all my attires, Monique Lhuillier gown, oscar de la renta gown, and mini Lela Rose dress for after party, but these are so beautiful, can only admire from a far though.

     

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