(Closed) Did/have you gotten to the point where you just STOP planning?

posted 5 years ago in Logistics
Post # 4
Member
9484 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Heck yes.  I was so fed up with particular issues.  I told FI that I just didn’t care anymore and literally didn’t talk wedding for the longest time.  But you get back into the swing of things eventually.  =)

Post # 5
Hostess
7568 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Yes! Stop planning, focus on relaxing and enjoying your last few “single” days! 

Post # 6
Member
1975 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

yep, i stopped planning about a month ago. the only thing i will do now for the next year is write down songs i stumble across and continue to look at dresses. 😀

just as planned

Post # 7
Member
24025 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

YES.  We took frequent breaks from planning back in our wedding planning days.  Sometimes stepping away is necessary!

Post # 8
Member
30 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yup I’ve stopped planning and it feels good

Post # 9
Member
95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I had four months to plan my wedding.  I baically showed my event coordinator my pinterest and told him to have fun. He was someone that had done events for my family in the past and I trusted him.  I had no idea how the flowers and decorations were going to look until I showed up the day of the wedding. He stuck to me and my FI’s style and it was perfect.  I was so glad I let go. I was able to enjoy the day much better.

Post # 10
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2694 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yes, a few months ago, I took a break from planning and didn’t do anything wedding related for weeks.  It felt good and I felt refreshed when I went back to planning, with renewed energy.

Post # 11
Member
1473 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I stopped for a semester of college (i work full time and grad school half time)

I will start again in November. I’ll be in Ohio for Christmas, so the plan is insane plannign time then

Post # 12
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2326 posts
Buzzing bee

The big day is a long way away, & i’ve already done so much to the point where i’m already chnaging my mind…. so I’ve actually told FI that he can organise the rest… doubt that will hold though 🙂

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