(Closed) Difficult Bridesmaids!!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3943 posts
Honey bee

Yikes…12 is a lot!

Post # 4
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

12 is a lot of different personalities to bring all together…I can imagine how difficult that might be.  It’s pretty much impossible to please 12 people.  I only have 2 and they’re both awesome.  Do you think you would feel comfortable having a conversation with the one(s) that are being difficult and explain they’re causing you undue stress, and if they are really that displeased with the process, offer them the option of stepping down and attending as only a guest.

Post # 6
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

just say this is the final dress and thats it, end of story

put your foot done Ms Bride to be because remember..it’s all about you!

Post # 7
5170 posts
Bee Keeper

@dkeller30: 12!?!?!?!?! I had a couple bridesmaid probs, I say cut them! Less stress

Post # 8
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

12 is a huge amount!! Wow!! 

If it’s just 3 that are causing problems, I’d cut them out if I were you. If you really don’t want to cut them out, be honest with them. It’s your wedding and the dresses and colours, etc are your decision, not theirs. When they have their own weddings they’ll get to decide what they want, and I bet they won’t expect half the drama they’re causing you. So tell them that, basically, they need to put up and shut up lol x

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