- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2016
Hello guys i need some advice.
When I found out i was getting married I felt i had to ask my partners sister to be a bridesmaid out of politeness. Its not a huge problem for me but I did have to bypass asking a very close friend, the friend has been lovely and understands.
I was quite supised when she accepted because she is the sort of girl who never wears dresses, doesn’t own a single piece of make up and still lets her mum cut her hair. (shes 25) She has no interest in being girly, wich is the total oposit of myself so i would have thought she woud know what to expect.
So Shes always agreed to wear a long dress but because i am having a summer wedding and there is A LOT of detail and fabric on my own dress im pretty set on having knee length.
Well I was speaking to her in emaisl yesteryday and I said i had found a pretty knee length dress i liked and well…she didnt seem impressed and phoned me today telling me she wanted to go to the dress shop tomorow to try it on because she wasn’t sure on the length.
However I know she doesn’t mean that at all I know exacyl what is going to happen…I am going to be taken to this shop, she will try on the dress, wont like it then they will try and find a dress that she wants and not me. I know my mother in law is already a little anoyed because i went and tried on wedding dresses with my own mother and 2 of my friends and brought one without her being there, i also what my wedding dress to be a secret.
I dont think she likes the fact she isnt getting a say in things. I know im just going to get cornered tomorrow it will be two against one and I really dont like confrontation.
Sorry it was a long post. Im new here aswell so hi 🙂 x I hope i have posted this in the correct place.