- 7 years ago
I am in the midst of choosing my MOH and I am having a dilemma. I have a friend I have know since childhood, and one that I roomed with when I was away at college. I want my college friend to be the MOH as she was there for me at some of the best and worst points in my life that really brought us close together. I used to be very close to the childhood friend but I feel that we’ve grown apart over the last few years and she’s said some things to me over the past year that were very hurtful. I still want her in the wedding party, just not as MOH. I am worried her feelings will be hurt when I tell her I’ve chosen the other girl. I guess what I’m asking is how to go about telling my childhood friend that my college friend will be the MOH? Should I explain the reasoning or just leave it?