(Closed) Dilemma

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If she already agreeed to being a bridesmaid she has lost her power to choose which stores and which dress she will wear. I also don’t feel you should feel obligated. If she asks like that now, she definately is not going to change when it comes to making decisions as a group with your other girls. Worst case if you haven’t asked her she can do something else at the wedding: read, hostess, usher. Choose the one that will be less stress on you.

Post # 4
Member
32 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Maybe she can do a reading in your ceremony? You can always go shopping for a dress together since she’d still be involved, and in the spotlight for a few minutes. But this way, she can pick her own dress. 

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