Dilemma with Brother and wedding

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

@leebeelan:  I don’t see any reason in telling them that they are not invited. It’s your wedding you invite who you want there. If they ask just flat out tell them that no it was not a mistake they are not invited. 

It could be beneficial to let your wedding party and close family members know that your brother and his wife are not invited and request that they keep it to themselves and that if they do see them at the wedding, or hear that they are going to come anyway, they can allert you.

Also, will you have any type of wedding coordinator or security at your venue? You could also make sure that they know that your brother and his wife are not invited and that if they show up they will be escourted off the property. I’ve also been to wedding where there was a guest list at the door to the venue and if you were not on the guest list you were not admitted. Perhaps that would help cut down on your stress of them just showing up?

I’m sorry you are dealing with this though! 

Good luck! 

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