HELP!  Need tips on asking for a discount/price adjustment with vendors!
more by oracle
Is it weird to throw my own engagement party?
Margaritas or Cash Bar?
more in Food
Food Tasting vs. What Is Actually Served - how close is it?
Did anyone NOT do engagement photos?
more in Boards
Confused...who would be MOH?

Dinner Choices - what's your preference??

posted 2 years ago in Food
  • poll: What would you select for dinner?
    Beef : (32 votes)
    36 %
    Chicken : (19 votes)
    21 %
    Vegetarian (likely a stuffed portobello mushroom) : (12 votes)
    13 %
    Pasta (pasta w/ chicken in a cream sauce) : (16 votes)
    18 %
    None of the above (would prefer something else - see comments) : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Fish : (10 votes)
    11 %
  •  
    1.
    Member
    5,511 posts
    Bee Keeper
    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    It's time for the fun of menu choices, and I'm trying to figure out what might work best.

    At first I was going to select one chicken, one fish and one vegetarian option.

    Now, I'm thinking about one beef, one fish and one vegetarian option.

    And then there are pasta options too (they have vegetarian and non-vegetarian options for this, so it could be the chicken substitute (and include chicken in the pasta)).

    So, now that I've thouroghly confused myself... I need your help!  

    What's your personal preference when it comes to wedding food?

    I definitely need a vegetarian selection and I'd like to have a fish choice.  Which leaves chicken or beef. Help!  

     

    EDIT:  whoops - forgot to add the fish to the poll above - thanks.  Also, I've always thought that people make their choice based on what they think will be the hardest to screw up.  And, I never pick the same entree as my date - better odds at getting a bite at something edible, that way.   

     

     
    2.
    Member
    1,829 posts
    Buzzing bee
    thefuturemrsjewell    August 7, 2010   Washington DC

    you didn't add fish to the chioces... i'd definitely go for fish if it was a choice.

     
    3.
    Member
    4,138 posts
    Honey bee
    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I would typically pick fish (you didn't have that as an option) but if not, I would probably pick the vegetarian.  I like chicken and beef just fine, but I don't always love how it's cooked for weddings, banquets, etc. so I'll end up picking fish or vegetarian to be safe.

     
    4.
    Member
    6,816 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    I always choose the beef if I'm given a choice and about 95% of the time regret it. I guess it's conisdered the classier option since it's the most expensive and I do love red meat, but for some reason at a wedding I tend to prefer pasta which is almost never served.

     
    5.
    Member
    5,018 posts
    Bee Keeper
    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    90's throwback: I feel like chicken tonight :)

     
    6.
    Member
    6,816 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    Oh, and like Hotchild said, meat options prepared for weddings aren't usually cooked to perfection.

     
    7.
    Member
    713 posts
    Busy bee
    lotam240    October 3, 2009   Philadelphia

    We have approximately 70% of our guests choosing the beef entree from the choices of beef, chicken, and vegetarian.  Even though I'm not a beef eater and I would never choose it, it seems to be the overwhelming favorite at least in our case.

     
    8.
    Member
    274 posts
    Helper bee
    Miss Paris    June 19, 2010   Paris, France

    I would chose chicken or vegetarian.  I personally very rarely eat beef (only if I'm craving tacos really) because of the environmental impact of it.  But those are my convictions, I know lots of people like red meat...

     
    9.
    14,581 posts
    Honey
    Beekeeper
    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I looove beef. It's been hit and miss at weddings. I had a FAB prime rib this past weekend but i heard the chicken was good. But i usually prefer it at a nearby steakhouse. CHicken is a better bet; it's all cooked one way and people just eat it.

     
    10.
    Hostess
    8,491 posts
    Bumble
    Beekeeper
    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Oh my gosh, I can't hardly read this because you're making me hungry!  Personally, I'd go for the beef.  At our wedding people ate more beef than chicken (we had both).

     
    11.
    Member
    2,434 posts
    Buzzing bee
    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    What is the meat option? I don't like chicken and I'm too picky to order fish and I'm allergic to dairy - so no cream sauce ... so either I'd order meat (beef) 

     
    12.
    Member Icon
    Member
    4,416 posts
    Honey bee
    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    @MrsHymanRoth, fish and chicken are technically meat as well since they were both living creatures at one point. 

    @OP, without having any clue as to what these specific dishes are (how they're prepared, what the cut of beef is, etc), I would go with beef just because I personally have had too many bad experiences with chicken in banquet settings being undercooked which is dangerous and I'm not into fish, nor am I a vegetarian. I think you'll get more accurate answers if you elaborate on what specifically you will be serving.

     

     

     

     
    13.
    Member
    5,511 posts
    Bee Keeper
    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    The choices are generic, because I haven't picked what they will actually be.  The beef dish the caterer raves about was a rib eye cut.  The chicken dishes are so diverse and I was hoping to pick it out at the tasting.

    I guess I'm realizing what I'm REALLY trying to figure out is I should go with choices of:

    Beef/Fish/Vegetarian

    Chicken/Fish/Vegetarian (this was my gut instinct when asked initially by the caterer)

    Pasta (with chicken)/Fish/Vegetarian

    or some other such combo.

    I do plan to describe how the mains will be prepared on the RSVP card (just don't know those details YET!)

     
    14.
    Hostess
    5,480 posts
    Bee Keeper
    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I usually order the beef at wedding receptions.  For whatever reason, I think chicken often gets too dry and isn't as tasty when mass produced.  I think my second choice would be the chicken and pasta.

     
    15.
    Member
    9,963 posts
    Buzzing
    Beekeeper
    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I'm not a big beef person, but even when I've gone to weddings and gotten it, its usually not done. Pasta seems hard to screw up, and also tasty :)

     
    16.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    2,685 posts
    Sugar bee
    frozen yogurt    April, 2010  

    I think you should do beef, vegetarian and fish.  Everyone will find something they like.

     
    17.
    Member Icon
    Member
    463 posts
    Helper bee
    GI Josephine    July 14, 2012   Cleveland, Ohio

    if beef, chicken and pasta (with no meat) were a choice, that'd be my vote!

     
    18.
    Member Icon
    Member
    498 posts
    Helper bee
    RAllise    05/08/2010   Connecticut

    I tend to stay away from chicken at weddings, they always come out dry when doing large quantities. Pasta I can make at home a bazillion different ways so that's nothing special. I usually go for the beef or fish option because it's more to my liking.

     
    19.
    Member
    5,511 posts
    Bee Keeper
    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    @RAllise - I hear what you are saying regarding chicken - at work, everyone tells me "rubber wedding chicken" comes to mind, when they see 'chicken' on an RSVP card!!

     
    20.
    Member
    57 posts
    Worker bee
    magsnmoose    april 17, 2010   tampa, florida

    i like the beef, fish, veggie option. i agree that chicken can sometime be less than desirable when produced in large quantities. if someone doesn't eat/like red meat i think they'll just be happy that there are 2 other options to choose from!

     
    21.
    Member
    2,655 posts
    Sugar bee
    Tanya123      

    Going by your last post, I can say I would definitely avoid the pasta/fish/vegetarian combo.  I think some guests will look at those options and feel like they aren't happy with any of it.  Maybe it's just me, but I kind of feel like these options, won't be pleasing to a lot of men.  I guess in my circle guys like thir beef. 

    You said you wanted a vegetarian option.  How many vegetarians do you have (if you know)?  If it's just a few, maybe you can just have a few special dishes made, freeing up one of your options.  But if you keep the vegetarian option, I think you should either make the pasta dish the vegetarian option or go with something else.  Obviously the chicken would have to be absent, though.

    So based on the options you're considering, I would go for beef/fish/vegetarian.

     
    22.
    Member Icon
    Member
    3,105 posts
    Sugar bee
    slicey19      

    I always order the chicken and often covet the vegetaian option. I would go with Chicken, Beef, Vegetarian (because you said you need ont) and keep it simple unless you know you have a lot of fish eaters (or it is a local dish). If fish is mandatory, I would do Beef, fish, vegetatian.

    That being said, for my own reception I´'ll offer, beef, chicken, fish (vegetarian on request since we don't have more than 2 actual vegetarians).

     
    23.
    Member
    740 posts
    Busy bee
    minneapolitan    11/7/2009   Minneapolis, MN

    I don't eat beef, so I'd probably go with your chicken or pasta option.  With our group we went with a chicken and a pasta option - we only would have added fish because we know our group, they're inclined to choose fish or veg for the most part and pass on the beef when they can.  A friend's recent wedding had just chicken/fish/veg and everybody was happy.  The food was awesome.

     
    24.
    Member
    2,152 posts
    Buzzing bee
    alishaneva    May 2011   Lancaster, PA

    yummmm chicken chicken chicken! I swear, I could eat it everyday for lunch and dinner and not grow tired of it!

    That said, I would totally love a chicken meal at a wedding however alot of times they don't make it the nicest way (I'm not one who likes fruit flavorings in chicken or any meat for that matter). So I think the pasta dish with chicken sounds WONDERFUL!

     
    25.
    Member
    1,812 posts
    Buzzing bee
    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    I'm one of those people everyone hates because I'm SOOOOOOOOOO picky. I hate cooked veggies and some veggies in general (bell peppers? EW! musrhooms? SICK!) so I never order the veg option if there's chicken. However, the same goes for chicken if it has those things in it- gross. But usually I can move those to the side if possible and still get SOME food :) I don't like beef or fish. Maybe do Beef, Fish, or Pasta- and then in the pasta option ask with or without chicken. It wouldn't be hard for the caterer to toss chicken in some of them- that way people who want the extra protein on their plate can get it.

     
    26.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    4,047 posts
    Honey bee
    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I love food, and I'd probably be happy with any of those choices.  I picked fish because although I love a good steak, I prefer my beef super rare, and at large dinner events, they tend to serve medium. 

     
    27.
    Member
    1,482 posts
    Bumble bee
    Brianalaura    August 14, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    We're having beef, chicken and vegetarian options.  Most of our peeps will choose beef, but I only eat chicken so I wanted that option!  We also have several vegetarians (including my mom) so we knew we needed that option also.  Fish just isn't very popular amongst our families and friends, and neither of us really like it.

     
    28.
    Member
    626 posts
    Busy bee
    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    My fave options are the fish/beef/veggie (or pasta) option. Chicken does have a bad rep at weddings so I try to avoid that.

     
    29.
    Hostess
    3,054 posts
    Sugar bee
    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I am not a vegetarian but I do like pasta.  However I would want a little more from a wedding menu.  I prefer a nice beef over chicken so I chose that.  I would say your best bet is to either do a beef, chicken and veggie (pasta or something else) OR a beef, fish and veggie.

     
    30.
    Bee
    3,386 posts
    Sugar bee
    poodle    April 1, 2010   California / Planning Process in Chile

    I am a big beef fan so that's why I pick it

     
    31.
    Member
    5,018 posts
    Bee Keeper
    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I'd vote for Beef/Chicken/Vegetarian option!

    Does chicken really have a sucky reputation at weddings?? I've never really had a bad chicken dish before at a wedding... I've had gross, soggy fish though!

     
    32.
    Member
    463 posts
    Helper bee
    sf_carrie       San Francisco

    What's the venue?  In my experience managing fundraising events at a previous job, generally the chicken options were the least exciting at hotel venue (hence, the rubber chicken reputation).  I'd go with beef, fish and a vegetarian pasta (without cream/dairy). 

     
    33.
    Member Icon
    Member
    69 posts
    Worker bee
    KlingonBride      

    I absolutely love stuffed portobello mushrooms, so that is what I picked in the poll. But my next choices would be fish or pasta (even with chicken - I'm not a vegetarian). I can't offer personal picking-entrees experience because we did a buffet luncheon with lots of different finger foods and little sandwiches and such.

     
    34.
    Member
    3,340 posts
    Sugar bee
    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    My choices in order from your list: Fish, Pasta w/ Chicken, then a tie for chicken/veg/beef, since it'd be whatever mood i'd be in on the day I sent back the reply card.  Pasta PLUS chicken would be a good wedding choice to soak up some alcohol. 

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    aussiebee 6
    janetsnakehole 5
    simpleandchic 4
    j_jaye 4
    Rivendeler 4
    MabelleBliss 3
    MrsOliveBird 2
    MrsMSmith 2
    Adalita 2
    bonkeyball3 2

    Food


    Sorry, there are no users yet.


    More