(Closed) Disappointed

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Aw, I’m sorry that was tough on you.  I totally would have thought that’d be a great opp for him to propose to.

Have you guys had the talk about what page you’re both on re: marriage?

Post # 5
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3142 posts
Sugar bee

or maybe……… he will propose at or around the show?

Sorry, I’m not helping you not think about it now am i?? :p

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I know how you feel.  My SO  and I have been together for 11 yrs and I too thought our 10yr anniversary would be it but no.  I was disappointed again.  Now every occation seems like it could be it.   I told him I wanted to get married in Sept or Nov and he agreed so he knows the presure is on.  He is a total procrastinator like your SO so I know about all the mixed emotions and excuses we give our SO.  Hopefully, both you and I will not have to wait much longer.  I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you!!

 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

Ugh, I’m really sorry. I try to avoid the waiting posts b/c I truly just don’t understand those who are waiting sometimes, but I completely understand this. It’s so hard, especially when you’ve been so open and honest about what you’re looking for. Ten years is a LONG time to be together without a proposal. For your sake, I really hope that he does it soon…b/c he’s making you wait a REALLY long time for it.

Post # 8
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363 posts
Helper bee

I can totally understand the dissapointment.  I’m sure the time will come though.  I mean after 10 years, you obviously love each other, and maybe feeling a bit of your dissapointement over the weekend will motivate him.  I’m not saying that this would be a way to manipulate him (not at all!) but even though you tried to not let your dissapointment show, he probably felt it.  Hopefully this motivates him.

It would be great during that weekend away!  

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Wow. 10 years and still no proposal? And here I am complaining about my measly 2 and a half going on 3. You deserve a standing ovation! Wink

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

I would give it until the show and if he doesn’t do it by then, I would have another tlak about what exactly he is waiting for. I am sorry- I hope he does it soon.

Post # 13
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493 posts
Helper bee

Yes I too would give him until the show just because it’s planned and you don’t want to spoil anything for him. Especially since it’s not that far away. And being that you don’t plan to marry until 2012….a proposal in May would give you plenty of time to plan. Keep your head up. I know it’s hard. Easier said than done because trust me I’ve been there.

Like one of the PP said I give you a STANDING OVATION you are still young though but 10yrs is a long time to be with someone. So I’m happy that you all stayed together that long. That really means something. I guess I should stop complaining about my soon to be 4 year relationship.

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