(Closed) Disappointed :( and frustrated…need some advise!

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh I think you have already done more than enough. It’s a case of you give em an inch  and they take a mile. If you try to cater to every little thing everyone wants, you’ll go crazy.

Post # 4
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796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Yes, I think you are done trying to please her. You gave it your best shot. If she brings up that a choker might look better, just nod and smile. If she wants to go out and buy herself one, that’s up to her.

Post # 5
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754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

Forgive her terribe breach of etiquette and tell her to wear the damn necklace you picked out!

Post # 6
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937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

@Niki: well said!!

I think you’ve definitely gone above and beyond here and the fact that she doesn’t really seem to be that grateful would annoy me personally.

Post # 7
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1037 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Carlouel Yacht Club

I think you’re being pretty accommodating in the first place in allowing her to have a different color dress, etc from the others!  But its true,  you give an inch, and they attempt to take a mile…

Post # 9
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I second Niki!!

Post # 10
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246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

No, you are not wrong…at all!  They should wear the necklaces you bought, and that’s that.  You have aleady been more than accommodating!

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