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Disappointment over dress alterations

posted 1 year ago in Dress
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  • poll: Should I change the neckline?
    Looks great as-is : (48 votes)
    87 %
    Go for it - how bad could it turn out? : (6 votes)
    11 %
    Look for a cheap 2nd dress with the neckline you want (in the 3 wks you have left...) : (1 votes)
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    something else? : (0 votes)
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    I was torn between 2 dresses, one was cheaper and the other had the sweetheart neck I wanted.  I was originally told I could convert the cheaper to a sweetheart, so that's the one I got.  I had my fitting last week, and the tailor said once they opened the seams and got a better look, the dress would lose its integrity and the rounded peaks of the sweetheart neck might flop around (effectively flashing people).  Obviously I'd prefer to save the flashing for the honeymoon, so I said nevermind.  I'm picking up my dress for good tomorrow, and I'm totally second guessing.  I REALLY really wanted a sweetheart neckline, but I don't know if it's worth the risk since I don't really know what it'll look like.  Unfortunately I don't really have a good photo of the top since I'm always the one taking the picture.  But here's the best views I've got.

    Disappointment over dress alterations :  wedding Final Fitting

    Disappointment over dress alterations :  wedding My Dress

     

    **Oops, if someone wants to move this to DRESSES be my guest...

     
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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    Actually your dress looks like it has a slight sweetheart neckline to it already, but it is subtle. The dress is totally gorgeous, btw. 

    As for ruining the structural integrity of the dress, I think it depends on how dramatic a sweetheart neckline you ask for. A slight dip couldn't hurt, right? But a big one might. How much of one were you asking for?

    p.s. I moved the post to the dress board for you

     
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    anewlin    June 18, 2011   Wisconsin

    I think it looks great the way it is!  Very pretty :)

     
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    Mattel    November 6, 2010   WNY

    I agree that it does give the idea of a sweetheart. I think it looks great!

     
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    bridetacular    September 25, 2010  

    I think it looks perfect. Great pick!

    I'm having the same battle right now with my dress in terms of the style I traditionally love and the style I purchased. I got a drop waist when I usually go for something that brings more attention to my waist... I've been going back and forth about it, and in the end, I'm loving what I have. It isn't what I *dreamed* but it's gorgeous and compliments me just the same. And kind of changes my mind on what I thought looked good on my body type.

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    You look amazing in your dress!

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    The top is definitely not straight across...it has a bit of a sweetheart to it.  I think it looks great.  I say don't risk altering it and don't stress about your dress decision - it looks beautiful on you.

     
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    pregnantbride    July 13, 2010  

    I say the dress looks great as is. It's already body hugging so that gives it so much appeal to it already. If anything why don't you just get another dress for the end of the reception that has a sweet heart neckline. 

     
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    Tswife4ever    May 28, 2011   California

    Looks gorgeous on you!

     
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    Kimberly1010    October 3, 2010   New York

    The dress looks beautiful on you!

     
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    sandypie    January 8, 2011   Seattle

    Looks great on you!

     
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    cincity75    July 23, 2011   michigan

    Its got a soft sweatheart and I think it looks great too.

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    i agree with the first poster, that says it already has a slight sweetheart and i guess you could probably alter it slightly - but not teh typical huge dip of a traditional sweetheart. can it be slightly dipped to make you feel better?

    but honestly it looks great as is.

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    I think it looks wonderful! It honestly looks like more of a scoop neckline than a sweetheart, but I wouldn't change it at all. It gives the same effect as a sweetheart, which I think is sooo much more flattering than straight across.

     It looks amazing and you're going to be gorgeous the day of your wedding! I for SURE would not try to find another dress. And ditto the pp who said it makes your body look great as well.

     
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    maybridetobe    May 28, 2011  

    gorgeous dress looks great neck line looks great already

     

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