Post # 1
You wouldnt be friends with if it werent for the fact that you’ve been friends for so long?
I have one that is completely different from me so most of the time, the things she does and says kind of annoy me. But I’ve always kept her around because we’ve been friends for over 10 years now.
Any of you have that problem or something similar?
Post # 3
yes. we have different interests, different social groups, different lifestyles. but we’ve been friends for like a hundred years so we always keep each other in the loop.
Post # 4
People change and friendships sometimes need to end…I wouldn’t be friends with someone if they continually annoyed me. I was given a piece of advice once they said you need to be around life givers not suckers.
Post # 5
Yep, I have one of those. We are as different as night and day.
Post # 6
haha i do, i almost never hang out with her but when i do shes the best. But on FB and instagram shes soooo annoying lol
Post # 7
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
I had one, but I dumped her. It was no longer a healthy friendship, for either of us I suspect.
Post # 8
@stephko99: Yes! She’s called: My sister!
Post # 9
@Missus_LLC: This is exactly how I feel!! lol. I wish I could just delete her from facebook and not talk to her as much during the week then I wouldnt be as annoyed lol. She’s always been there for me, its just were 2 seperate people and have totally different goals in life.
Post # 10
Yes! I have been distancing myself from her and her crazy and negative ways. She is so selfish and immature that it is hard to get anything more than frustration out of our friendship. People have been telling me for years to let her go but it is hard with so much history. I am starting to realize how right they have been all along.
Post # 11
I don’t have anyone like this in my life.
Post # 12
I did. We’d been friends since kindergarten so we kind of just kept being friends, but as we got older, it was clear we were just entirely different people who would not have become friends if we’d met when we were older. She was also the type of person who would talk behind your back and tell other people your business, so you couldn’t really trust her. She talked about all of her other friends to me, behind their backs, so it shouldn’t have come as any surprise to me when I found out she was gossiping about me and sharing private things about me with other people.
A couple of years ago I basically ended the 18 year friendship by telling her I didnt appreciate the way she treated her “friends” and had no need for such drama in my life.
I really don’t miss her.
Post # 13
@StuporDuck: That is so funny lol
I had a friend like that but she was just way to much drama. I had to end our friendship because she always tried to be-little me. That is not a friend if you ask me.
Post # 14
I don’t, because I moved to go to college and stayed out here ever since, so that sort of broke off any old friendships. For a while I thought it was sad that I didn’t have any of those “lifelong friends” people talk about, but I must say it made it easy to pick my bridesmaids Current best friend, sister, Future Sister-In-Law, BAM DONE!
Post # 15
Nope. While history has a long time to do it, I think at a certain point if it becomes toxic then you need to let it go.
Post # 16
I have one. She’s as sweet as can be a great all around person. BUT she is just not not as fun and crazy as me and my other friends…and she is always trying to hang out with me one on one.
I feel terrible that she and I dont have the same connection or chemistry as the the other girls and I do, but its just not there. And she wants to be a bridesmaid, she expects it!
Its funny how double sided relationship are…someone may think that you and them are tight…when in your opinion…not so much…