Post # 1
Is it ever ok to give the bridesmaids (I will have 2) different gifts? Mine are just so different that I can think of very few things they’d both like. I’d rather get things they’ll love even if it means separate gifts, but is this a breach of etiquette?
Post # 3
@Laurenplusalex: your poll is confusing. your title question is “do BM gifts have to be the same”, the question in the post is “is this a breach of etiquette,” and the question on the poll is “is it ok.” I accidentally answered ‘no’ because I was answering the title and post questions, not ‘is it ok.’
Post # 5
They definitely don’t have to be the same! It’s a great idea to try to cater their gifts to their interests. I’d just make sure that they seem equivalent in terms of how much you spent on both bridesmaids. It doesn’t matter how much you spend — just that you don’t want one feeling slighted.
Post # 6
My BMs got different gifts because they have such different styles, but I gave them similar items (both got gift cards, both got earrings, etc).
Post # 7
I think it’s better when they’re different. It shows that you actually considered each girl’s personal taste and wants instead of buying something generic. Go for it!
Post # 8
@Gemstone This exactly. The gifts do not have to be the same.
Post # 9
I wanted all of my girls’ gifts to be the same. That’s my personal preference. I found things that ALL of them can use.
Post # 10
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