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Seems like this is the traditional thing to do, but lately i have been hearing girls not really doing it and as for me, I never really cared to have a bachelorette party and would not be sad or disappointed if i didnt have one. Just wondering how you guys feel about it.

I'm with tessabella, I'd love a girly sleepover and just something laid back with my closest friends. I wouldn't be upset in the slightest if we didn't do any sort of bachelorette event though.

I'm having one but it'll be more of a nice outting than trashy suck for a buck type deal-

Drinks, finger foods, and games at my MOH's place, then out to dinner at a nice restaurant, then out to a laid back pub type place for after-drinks :)

I've no interest in a bachelorette personally. If I have a wedding shower that alone will be a minor miracle!

I do hope my guy has a bachelor party though, I think he'll enjoy spending some time with the guys.

While I'm all for the idea of going out with all my gal pals - I wouldn't really care if I didn't have an official bachelorette party.  I have a girls night every week with my closest girl friends in the area.  I have a hard time imagining what would be much different about a bachelorette party than what we already do - except that we'd definitely be going out to the bars, which doesn't happen too often.

I care about having a nice evening {or spa day!} with my closest girlfriends, but not in a traditional bachelorette party sense. My gf's are also far spread across the country, making a real get together a bit tough. 

I'm not a huge drinker, plus I would want to spend my bachelorette with people closest to me and that includes my two younger sisters who are not yet of legal drinking age. I choose other because I do want a bachelorette party in the sense that I would love a night with my best friend, my sisters, my mom, and a few other people where we could hang out and have a ball. We're actually considering doing something like going to an indoor waterpark hotel not far from us, that way those who wish to drink can but those who don't can do other things. I think it sounds like a blast for us and more of a bonding experience than bar hopping for a night.

I thought I did a long time ago...I checked other...I would still LOVE to hang out with girlfriends...maybe get a hotel suite or go to dinner, but I don't want to do the traditional party/club thing...my sister is throwing this elaborate affair (she's my MOH) and I'm soooo glad she is, but she told me some of the plans and I was secretly like(I really don't want to stay out that late :$) I can be a party pooper sometimes...oh well, I'll have fun anyways...

I want a party, but not a bar-hopping, peenie-wearing blowout. I'm working with my MOH to find some fun under-21 friendly things to do. On the list? Japanese steakhouse, manicures, massages, and renting a hotel room (probably two or three, really). We'll buy some alcohol for the hotel, but I'm not a big fan of drinking heavily anyways. 

I really don't care whether I get one or not, but I know several of my close friends want me to have a wine-tasting weekend either in Temecula or Paso Robles.  On the other hand, I only see my FI on the weekends and hate to give up that time.  If we are able to move in together before the wedding, I will be more excited about a weekend with the girls.