Do Groom's send thank you cards for Bachelor parties?

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

i get that he might not want to send out notecards – but i think a mass email telling him what an awesome time he had is definitely in order! doesn’t have to be girly or whatever, maybe he could add some pictures or something so that he doesn’t feel like it’s a ‘thank you’ email? if that’s the hurdle. i think the guys would appreciate being thanked in an email/facebook message 🙂

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Sounds like your man had an awesome party!!  So nice of his friends!!!  I do not think anyone would expect a guy to write a handwritten note, but agree with others that he can write a mass email!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Noo def don’t send out cards. [content moderated for TOS] Just when he sees them in person he can mention how awesome it was, or text them. 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Meant2Bee:  why doesn’t he get them some sort of gift to say thanks? I don’t see what’s wrog with a male sending a thank you out – my husband does when the situation calls for it. In this case my husband would definitely be sending some sort of gift. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

MrsN14:  uhhh ‘pretty gay’ is pretty rude. you should be more careful of your language. and before you defend it:

‘gay’ as stupid = rude

thinking that writing a thank you note has anything to do with someone’s sexuality = rude AND ridiculous

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2014

It depends on the guy. An email is definately a good idea. I would write thank you’s for mine, but I promised my FI that I would write the wedding thank you’s so finding the time for a few extra would be unecessary, esp once you assume that everyone attending the Bachelor Party is also attending the wedding.

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