Do guys appreciate lingerie or not?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: In your experience, are guys really into bras and lingerie, or not?
    Guys love lingerie : (85 votes)
    40 %
    They think it's better "on the floor" : (103 votes)
    49 %
    Tricky OTHER : (24 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    564 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    That depends greatly upon the guy.

    Some guys love lingerie, others just want to take it off

    My SO loves lingerie. 🙂

    But I think most guys will take naked boobs over a bra anyday.




    Post # 4
    1719 posts
    Bumble bee

    It depends on the man. Some men like it, some don’t. 

    I don’t have any personal experiences with this subject, so I don’t have any anecdotes to share. 

    Post # 5
    6633 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Of course they are going to think looks better on the floor.   Hello that means going to get some

    Post # 6
    353 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I don’t think guys really care too much about lingerie in general, but it really does depend on the guy. It’s just going to come off anyway and they always like what’s underneath better.

    Post # 7
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    It definitely depends on the guy. FH sure likes to check me out when I wear all that stuff, but he always says he’d rather be taking it off because it looks better on the floor, haha 🙂

    Post # 8
    279 posts
    Helper bee

    My guy loves lingerie. I have a lot of it and he will always ask me to put it on for him. He does like to take it off after a little while though.

    My ex was kind of obsessed with lingerie. He would ask me to leave it on during sex and just work around it,so he definitely didn’t think it looked better on the floor.

    Post # 9
    10219 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Lingerie is a tease…

    Men are visual creatures… they like Lingerie cause it gets them excited…

    But once excited, they’d like to get on with business !!

    That said, I had a GF in College (here in Cold Canada) who made me laugh

    Her BF would come to our Sorority House for a visit, and her regular nightwear was a pair of Red Long Johns, Sock-Foot Slippers, and a Tuque…

    Sort of an Adult version of this:

    Not what most of us would define as sexy…

    BUT it was to her man… and that is all that matters

    As she said, it was only going to end up on the floor anyhow !!

    In truth, men like women… in or out of clothes…

    Preferably the latter.

    I VOTED – Tricky Other

    PS… I asked Mr TTR this Question and his response… “Some Men Do”

    So I’m sticking with my vote.


    Post # 10
    1400 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think most men appreciate lingerie the same way they appreciate wrapping paper, it looks nice and serves a purpose, but the real tresure is what it’s hiding 😉

    Post # 11
    3731 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Hub appreciates lingerie so much that he even finds my granny panties sexy. When I wear something seriously sexy, his appreciation is apparent 😉

    Post # 13
    454 posts
    Helper bee

    it really depends! It has the possibility of enticing the moment, but it all depends on how you use the lingerie

    I mean if you just put it on and plop into bed, we don’t really care at all and will see it as a waste of time. But if you put some effort into showing us how you walk, talk, and feel confident in the lingerie, I think your SO would like it a lot.

    Post # 14
    4540 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

    Some men do, but mine’s in the “I’m just going to take it off….” camp.

    Post # 15
    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @prahajess:  I folowed this from my thread (wedding night lingerie).

    My SO loves them! We leave on as much as possible during the deed.

    Post # 16
    1226 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @prahajess:  I agree that it depends on the guy! My DH has NO interest – he’ll sometimes say ‘that bra is nice’ but if I talk about spending money on fancy lingerie he’s like “don’t do it for me!”. 

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