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    MrsBradtobe    10/10/2009   New Zealand

    My best friend got engaged on Christmas day 2008. Her engagement party is this weekend (a bit late if you ask me but whatever). Do I get her a present?

    It's just a pretty casual get together at the pub down the road, there's around a 150 people coming. I can't remember if she bought us a present when we got engaged or not. I know we didn't expect people to give us anything but most of them did.I designed the invites for her so I know they don't mention gifts.

    Advice is appreciated : )

     
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    baffled111       Walla Walla WA

    I think you should go with your feelings on this one. If it's your best friend, it might be nice to get her/them something. It doesn't necessarily have to be expensive, but surely she would appreciate a small gift from you.

    Spread the love. :)

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I would most definitely get my best friend an engagement gift.

     
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    MrsBradtobe    10/10/2009   New Zealand

    @baffled111 - I think you are right, FI mentioned maybe just a bottle of wine, some chocolates and a DVD so they can have a little date night. He is a police officer that works nights so they don't get much couple time.

     
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    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    A small gift is a nice gesture.  I would say yes, get her a gift.

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I think it would be nice to get them a little something--like your FI suggested--a nice bottle of wine or something.  I'm sure they'd appreciate it. :)

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    We had an engagement party and nobody brought us gifts.

    A bottle of wine is always a nice gesture though.

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    I'd go with a bottle of wine and a nice card. Nothing too fussy but enough to show you care.

     
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    Miss Cherry    August 22, 2009   Southern NJ

    I would defintely get a small gift.  My best friend go me a wedding planning bag to keep all my wedding stuff in ... it was like $15.  Or a wedding picture frame would be nice.  I got my FSIL a candle with her new initial on it for her engagement gift and she got me a box to hold my responses in for my engagement gift.  There are so many cute possibilities!

     
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    MissCamera    August 1, 2009   Upstate NY

    If you feel like doing something, then a little something would be nice. Maybe movie tix or a bottle of wine and such. Or you could buy the happy couple each a drink, or just give a nice congratulatory toast. Since you designed her invites for her, I wouldnt think she'd be expecting a gift anyway.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I don't like to show up anywhere empty-handed, so i agree with others that a bottle of wine, movie tickets, etc. would be a thoughtful gift.

     

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