Do I buy her a wedding gift??

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Do I buy an additional gift?
    Yes : (6 votes)
    18 %
    No : (25 votes)
    76 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6506 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @FutureDrAtkins:  usually I send a gift if I’m invited (even if I’m not going), however, if you already spent the money you were planning on spending I would not buy another gift. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    3420 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I would not send another gift, but I would send a card saying congrats.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1526 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I would get her something small. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @FutureDrAtkins:  I wouldn’t. I don’t know if you “should” but I still wouldn’t. I don’t like to live my life to other people’s standards and do what I should do. You mentioned it is a coworker, not a friend, you already bought her a gift, you helped throw her shower, and you guys can’t afford to go to the wedding (so I’m assuming there isn’t a ton of extra money). Don’t put yourself out for someone else’s wedding.

    Post # 8
    Member
    11668 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You don’t HAVE to give a gift, but I personally would. At the very least you should send a card.

    Post # 9
    Member
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee

    @FutureDrAtkins:  Have you been invited ? If not, I would not buy her a gift. You’ve helped her and given her gifts already. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    306 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    You don’t “have” to get her another gift, maybe get something small and a card.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2179 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    Nah I’d just get her a card. You already got a nice shower gift and helped throw the shower. If you aren’t attending the wedding a card will do.

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